theres a girl i like in school and then she calls me up to ask me if I had staring problems. It was spontaneous but at the same time she was kind of right cos i stare at her every once in a while. i guess she has insecurity.
but what would i say to her? would i just pretend that whatever shes sayin is ridiculous or should i tell the truth.
i pretended but i wana hear you guys
2006-12-18 13:46:55 · 28 answers · asked by KelvinsteR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said that she's been noticing for a few months but she didn't feel like saying until now...I don't think she's a conceited type.
2006-12-18 13:59:03 · update #1
Almost forgot...
Now she thinks I'm a creep...
but continue with answers
2006-12-18 14:01:28 · update #2
i would guess that if she likes you she responded this way b/c she doesnt know how to act with your staring at her
OR
if she is not interested in you,.... then that's how she dealt with it ...kinda defensive, id say
2006-12-18 13:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by lucky me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the benefit of confidence I'd never have had when I was in school, I reckon that the sensible thing to say would be along the lines of "I suppose there's many a worse thing I might be looking at than you!"
An alternative would be to say something along the lines of "I thought I saw a spider crawling along your shoulder and was wondering whether I should tell you or do something"
2006-12-18 13:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she is being funny, or she has issues.
Try the funny approach
"No I don't have a staring problem. I quite enjoy it"
If you stare every once in a while, then she shouldn't be calling you to tell you to stop it. If you stared at her everyday, then yes she is right to call you. I think she is over-reacting, or being funny.
2006-12-18 13:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always tell the truth...but if this gurl knos you were staring who cares?? Why should she be complaining? I just think that the fact she took time to call you means something! lol if you dont like her but you wanna look at her dont waste your time worrying about what she thinks be happy being you and doing what you do!
2006-12-18 13:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tae Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she caught you starring at her because your interested. Just tell her the truth you don't have a starring problem you just fine her delightful to look at :) That may sound cheesy but hey if you like her just come on out and tell her(Pssst she want bite :)
2006-12-18 13:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She *CALLED* you and asked if you have staring problems?
SHUH-WING. Dude, she likes you and she's trying to get you to say you like her. The fact that she contacted you means you've got her attention, the fact that she drew attention to you looking at her was a way for her to try to ferret you out.
An ideal answer would have been, "Only when I see something beautiful."
2006-12-18 13:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by JDB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uncover her on fb :P or simply see her and simply ask her overlook abot it whats the more serious factor that may occur if you happen to get rejected..enormous deal thats lifestyles i imply you greater face it now or permit it worsen. simply ask her out except you wish to invite her for her quantity first then name her and inform her. however im nonetheless liking the strolling as much as her speaking to her and asking her if she desired to move see a film and feature dinner along with her. The End :)
2016-09-03 16:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not insecure -- she just is not attracted to you. If she were, she would flirt with you instead of making that comment. She was just trying to tell you in a nice way that she doesn't want you staring at her if you want to remain friends.
2006-12-18 13:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Rex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her no you don't have a staring problem, but sometimes you can't help but look at her because she's so ugly it's scary. I hope you don't like this girl anymore dude, she sounds like a conceited whore face.
2006-12-18 13:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her that you're memorizing her face and her body so you can use it later that night. Either that or you're trying to find an imperfection but can't seem to. Or ask her why she's the only one in school with a halo around her head and what cloud she fell from.
2006-12-18 13:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by jglassdude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you are sorry to make her feel uncomfortable but you are simply taken by her beauty.
And that you think it would be awesome to get a chance to know her better!
Best wishes and Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-18 13:59:24 · answer #11 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋