i really like the se wo guys. they are both really nice. i recently found out that they both like me. how do i choose? how do i pick one without breaking the other's heart?
HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 13:44:36 · 12 answers · asked by pinkballerina101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really up to what you want right now. Think about what you like in a guy. Do you want a guy that is smart, dangerous, geeky, fun? Choose the traits you are most attracted to and the right guy should be an obvious choice. Unfortunately, you may have to upset the guy that doesn't get the opportunity to go out with you. That is a sad fact of life. Do not feel guilty, but be honest with him if he asks you about it.
2006-12-18 13:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is the guy you keep.
1. He opens doors for you.
2. He's not affraid to meet your folks.
3. He respects all women in general.
4. He likes you as much as you like him.
5. You click with him the most.
6. He will stand up for you.
7. He's always happy to see you and vise versa
8. He's smart. Thinks things out.
2006-12-18 21:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know if one guy will get a broken heart? You are just assuming that they both like you. If one liked you enough, he would LET YOU KNOW. Boys are able to tell you, you know.
I say let one of the boys approach you FIRST. It is more fun that way. Let them think that you are not the "I make the first move" girl. Letting a guy know you like him is often a put off for the guy. Keep 'em guessing. Be mysterious.
2006-12-18 21:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really didn't give enough info for anyone to give you advise
I need to know some good qualities and bad. But by the little information you gave and I do mean little info. I would see who I have the most in common with, who treats me better his attitude about different matters. After weighting all that then I would pick.
2006-12-18 21:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Htnspyc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So there was a parable in the bible about a child that two mothers argued over and whoever offered to cut the child in half. the true mother said to give the child unharmed to the other woman. But since only the true mother would not want to see the child harned, she was given the child. Offer to split your heart between the two of them. The one who concedes that giving only half your heart would be too painful is the one you should date.
2006-12-18 21:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you have to choose? You're not marrying them. Have you ever heard of the concept of dating? Being with a guy does not mean you have to be exclusive with him. It's ok to date different guys as long as your not going steady, engaged or married. Your generation seems to think liking a guy = practically married. It's ok to shop around and date different guys. Just don't lie about it.
2006-12-18 21:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should you have to chose just one? Go out with both of them. That's what everybody else does.
2006-12-18 21:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to think of who you like more. Or, you dont even have to choose.. Its not like you have to date one of them because they like you. So either dont pick one at all, or just think of who you like more i guess..
2006-12-18 21:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd advise you to give more information about the guys and the people will tell you who to go for. Either way, don't rush it!
2006-12-18 21:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by pzratnog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how does each one of them make u feel? whose personality do u like better? u no dat without breakin hearts is impossible.... wat other traits does one have dat the other doesn't..... wat makes them special... who is there for u even u need it the most...... just ask urself which one make u feel more comfortable like u can be urself around him........
2006-12-18 21:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by lito-azndr3am3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋