I need some words of wisdom,?

Question

I'm 17 and a senior. There are these two girls that I do not know what to do wtih. The first one, "Amanda" just got back from boarding school for the holidays, her school is in Boston, sucks I know. I was really good friends with her in 9th and 10th grade, junior year she got shiped off and i didn't see her untill thanksgiving of my senior year. She is really cute now, and i hung out with her over the weekend.
The second girl, "Barbara" is a freshman, but she looks like she is 16, thats why i started talking to her. I like her too, alot, but the thing is that she just so happens to live right across the street from Amanda. I had no idea about this. Good news is they don't know about eachother, yet
Both girls are very attractive, smart, funny and they both adore me, I do not know what to do, I have known Amanda for a long time, but Shannon came out of now where and I am pretty sure she is going to ask me to winter formal. I have hooked up with both

oops, shannon is her real name, i meant barbara, oh carp.

I know the whole Senior and Freshman thing looks really bad, but Barbara can easily pass for 16, and i thought she was, i met her my friends bon fire where we just talked, exchanged numbers and i found out about 10 seconds after she left that she was a freshie.

Another curveball here...
If Barbara doesn't ask me to formal, this other girl will try for me, she is a senior, but she is so worn out, she is one of those girls that is turned down even though the dudes know they can get it all from her...

Its not that i am worried about a long term relationship, i have taken both of them to the boneyard, these past two weekends.

and no, they aren't the types of girls that will have a 3 way, i already asked myself that one. :(

i'm going to barbara's on thursday for a "movie" but im hanging with amanda on friday, ??????/

thanks for all the input and advice, i'm going to have to sleep on this one

Answer 1

o0o0 aren't you the smokin hot stud on the block!...I say you enjoy boarding-school Amanda til she gets shipped back. Then put your moves on older-looking Barbara. Enjoy, then f you're alright with taking Barbara to the winter formal, take her. If not, than you've always got Shannon for the winter formal.
From what I've read, there really isn't a problem. you haven't made any commitment with any one of them. So, don't hide from the girls, if they ask about the other. Just say you guys are all friends. But also, don't go telling the girls about the other if the topic never gets mentioned. Otherwise ENJOY!!! Some one's definitly having a good holiday season! lol Happy holidays. ;)

Answer 2

Listen dude, sorry but would u rather hurt one girl or both? You need to go with the one you've known becuase she has been in your life for a while now. You need to break up with (but still be freidns with) Barbara. She is only a freshman anyway and after you graduate I promise she will find alot more better guys. She's a little too young right now. Stick with "amanda" oh wait she doesnt go to ur school does she? if she doesnt then u will have to decide if u want a girl who lives far away from u. by the way who is shannon?
good luck and remember...
barbara is only in 9th grade and u r a senior...plz
come on now!

Answer 3

Ladies usually dun like to split their guy into half or sharing it. In the end, both will just leave you for good and they would become good friends instead and dun be the next chris tucker for god sake lol. If i were you pick amanda cuz i bet you would want to know more about her than barbara as you and amanda built up a relationship in the past already. In other words you would find more interest in your old friend. But always remain as friends with barbara cuz you never know what the future brings.

Answer 4

Wow. Barbara Changed her name to Shannon.

Well, You are a Senior, I think It is kind of wrong for someone your age to have a relationship with a freshman. However, I think you will just have to play it by ear, I dont know you or either of the girls, so just listen to your heart. Do what you feel is right.
Good Luck
Sheri

Answer 5

You really have to decide who you like more. You're going to have to be brutal when you're comparing them or you'll keep thinking they're both equally great and you're back where you started. If the one girl goes to school in Boston, what are the chances of you getting into a relationship with her when she's at school? The other girl is right there so if you decide you don't like her more, you'll get to deal with her all the time. Since you hooked up with both, you better pray they don't ever talk because then you won't have to worry about making a choice.

Answer 6

Amanda bailed on you, and since she went to a boarding school in Boston she's now out of your league. Barbara is new and is local. Looks may be deceiving. Hook up with Barbara.

You can play the field and boink them both, but sooner or later you'll loose both of them and you'll be left with your crank in your hand.

Besides, you're young. Don't get hung up on the little stuff. Wait till you get to college. It's like going to the Grand Buffet.

Answer 7

goodness.
well, what do you mean by Hooked Up? Making out?
If Hooked Up means you had sex with both girls then Feelings are involved. If one finds out about the other , then you are going to be shunned, not just from them, but everyone they talk to as well.
I think, in your situation, you should try some self control and try the old fashion form of dating. Refrain from the sex hook up. That way, feelings are not hurt.
And hooking up with a freshman just sounds so gross.
(btw, you wrote Shannon...whom I guess is "Barbara")

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Drop them both. When you graduate and go off to college, you'll end up leaving them anyway. You should be more worried about having fun not which chick you need to stay committed to. You have plenty of time for that. You need have experience with different girls, so when you are ready to commit you'll know what kind of woman you need. Believe me, you are young. Don't take it too seriously. Move on and have fun. Don't sweat the high school chicks. If you do, you'll miss so many other opportunities.

Answer 10

Do either one of these girls OWN you? Are you in a relationship with either one? Are you engaged to be married to either one? Are you in fact married to either one? Or do you just enjoy the company of BOTH girls? If you answered yes to the last question then the answer is so ENJOY the company of BOTH girls. There is no law that says just because you LIKE someone that you have to be in a committed relationship with them. You are 17, still in high school you SHOULD be dating more than one girl before you settle down with one and make a commitment. But remember that dating does NOT equal sex, and that sex should come with a committed relationship and not by bed hopping (or back seat of car hopping).