what to do?

Question

my gf seems to be losing intrest in me, and wants to spend less time with me, what shld i do?

Answer 1

Dude spice up your relationship find out what she isnt getting from you and give it to her! Try to go out and do more things together. Get to know eachother more and have more fun. If that doesn't work then it's not meant to be. Good luck!

Answer 2

Sorry...there is not much you really can do...If you start running after her...she will just go the other direction...I would suggest telling her that you care about her, but feel the relationship is losing something and that you think you need to take a break for a while....I am not saying that will work...but it actually could make you more interesting to her (people tend to want what they feel they are losing or can't have)...I can't promise you it will work...but more chance than running after her. The ball will be more in your hands than hers this way....other wise it sounds like you might get that Dear John letter soon....It is so much more painful to be the dumped than the dumper....Who knows maybe it will spark some new interest....Good luck.

Answer 3

Ask yourself do you still like her and whether you both still have that common interest and goals like what normal couples do. If any of the above is a negative then i think you should let her off cuz love is about from the heart and not as to withholding someone.

Answer 4

give her some time dont try to be around her more bc she acts as if she doesnt want you any more. just give her time. maybe theres a lot goin thro her mind and she doesnt kno what to do. maybe shes confused about yalls relationship. so just give her time to think over whats goin on with her and if she wants to stay with you she will and if she doesnt she will break up with you. and if she does well sorry i hope u dont take it too hard. good luck

Answer 5

hey hang on, it's too harsh to break up immediately.... i think you should talk to her and find out the reasons behind her actions... you never know pal, she might be busy with her work or she might have some personal problems which she can't share with you, all you can do is either give her some time or talk to her about your concern, pls dont assume things and hurt your feelings, going thru break up is very difficult, trust me! hope it helps... take care pal!

Answer 6

you are getting the hint that she wants to break up with you. but i wouldn't break up with her first. she might just be moody and change her mind and then you will really regret it!! the worst thing to do is to get clingy. when i was getting ready to break up with by bf he knew it was coming. he would call constantly and give me complement left and right and was just annoying the heck out of me! you can guess how that ended up. just keep going on like you have been and see what happens.

Answer 7

Give it some time if you really like her.But coming from someone who has done it befor, I broke up with my ex Bf and i kinda pulled away slowly and casually started not to hang or be around him.So just warch your back she might be thinking of dumping you.

good luck =)

Answer 8

If she's losing interest, there's not much you can do. If you really want it to work out, ask her about it. If she doesn't want to talk about it or gets mad, you pretty much know a breakup is coming and there's not much to do but beat her to the punch.

Answer 9

be more interesting!!! lol, it may sound funny but i'm serious. plan something really exciting or special for her, something that SHE likes, and act like its the most fun you've ever had. or be totally spontaneous and go do something neither of you have done before. if she really likes you, she will def. appreciate the gesture.

Answer 10

i think you should ask her about that..and if u think that she is really losing intrest in you,u should let her go...theres a lot of girls outside there!!