She was in these see-thru little panties and bra set, and he was in boxers. The both looked as tho they meant for what they were wearing to be seen by the other.
His hand was very inappropiately placed.
Should I wake him and tell him to wake her or just yell and wake them both??
Will she be all embarassed cuz she is paractically naked?? Will he be mad or worried about how my husband and I will react??
Should I quietly wake my son and tell him to wake his g/f or just wake them both at once by freaking them out?? they are both 16.
Should I wake him and tell him to wake her or wake her and freak her out?? My hubby wants to put on some pjs, wake her and let her sleep in our bed and then he wants to climb in my sons bed and wait for him to wake up. Should he??
2006-12-18 13:33:52 · 15 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Should I let my hubby do his plan??
2006-12-18 13:40:42 · update #1
Why were you checkin out your son's girlfriend? Haha, just kidding. Teenagers tend to start experiementing with sex at the age of 16. What you completely just experienced is a normal behavior. The best you can do is to ignore it for now to save both the embarassment. Confront your son tomorrow in a mature manner and talk to your son about practicing safe sex.
2006-12-18 13:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by FLEEE-PURRR 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you for real? Of course you wake them up. And not quietly. You start yelling "What the hell do you think you're doing?" Then you tell her to get her clothes on and then you drive her home and wake her parents up and let them know what you found. Then you drive back home, ground your son, take away his car keys and tell him that as long as he lives under your roof, he will follow your rules and that means no girl friend there where you aren't home.
Then you talk to him about sex, birth control (on both parts) STD's AIDS, pregnancy and ask him if he's ready to be a parent because that's where he's headed.
Why would your son not know that no parents means no girl friend. No wonder we have so many screwed up kids today. They have parents who want to be their friends and forgo the responsibility of parenting. Sounds to me like both you and your hubby need to set some rules and stick to it or you might find yourself regreting your actions.
2006-12-18 21:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by Allison S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would your son think for a minute he could or should bring a girlfriend into his bedroom to begin with...Have you allowed this sort of behavior before?
Absolutely not!! , hubby should not play games with these youngsters by switching beds.........You and your hubby should wake them both...Hubby should get his pants on and drive the girlfriend right straight home to her father and mother...
I don't recall 16 being of age for anything of that sort before.
2006-12-19 00:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sylvia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he knows what can happen, Just be cool about it.
The bigger the deal you make about it the more your kid is likely to do it again or go even further. I know that when I was 16 and i was in that EXACT situation, my mom yelled bloody murder.
Because she embarrest me so bad, i made sure to go one step further to show that i was the boss of me and not her (or so i thought at the time). Now 10 years later i see what she was trying to do but when your that age you just don't get it. Just make sure he knows what could happen. A 16 year old dad is prob. not the best idea. Nor does an STD sound good either. so just educate and let help him with making the right choices, JUST DON'T Go NUTS..
2006-12-18 21:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Chris B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wake both of them up and demand what is going on. Oh course let them speak. But make the g/f call her mom and you have a mother to mother talk with the g/f mom. And make her mom come pick her up. That will upset the g/f mom so much to think that she has to come and pick her up. It will be a long ride for the g/f and her mom. Oh yeah and chew your son out.
2006-12-19 11:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would yell and freak out! Go now! That's what I would do, I have a 15 year old. They're both at fault, yell at both of them and get her parents on the phone and tell them what's going on and get them over there too!
2006-12-18 21:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wake them both up, tell them the behavior is not acceptable, but if they are going to be "doin it" then they better be using protection. And I would talk to them both quite frankly about it- because you dont want to be the one taking care of that baby while they are finishing high school!
2006-12-19 02:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Penny P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you havent allowed them to sleep together (i dont mean sex) so you should have established previously what is acceptable and what isnt. Your husbands idea is funny but it wont really solve anything, plus it would embarrass the girl and she would probably just want to go home then. I would cover the girl and wake your son to speak tohim first, then tell him she has to go home, or sleep in another room.
2006-12-18 21:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh how sweet! Sleeping in each other's arms with their knickers on. Get a blanket and cover them up and go quietly to bed, happy knowing that life goes on.
2006-12-18 21:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Trader S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I would wake my son and ask him whats up. Your hubbys idea is funny tho
2006-12-18 21:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by kelly_420_brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋