Here's a good question. Why do women go after a man that they know is in a relationship?

Question

You would think that we should stick together. I mean how would they feel if another woman went after their man.

Answer 1

everyone wants what they cant have

Answer 2

Well, being that I'm in that situation now (the man that I love is married, but getting a divorce), you can't help who you love or want. It's not like I actively sought out someone who was already in a relationship. It just happened that way. What you really should've asked is why can't a man who is in a relationship already respect it and not violate the sanctity of that relationship by seeking out someone else? It's a two-way street and you can't "take" someone who doesn't want to be taken. I believe that if you have a happy home, no one can come in and break that up. So if the man is satisfied with the woman that he has, he won't even put himself in the situation where another woman could come after him. Why do women always have to be the bad person in these situations? The men who have affairs and are not faithful are just as much to blame. And no, I'm not going to "stick together" with all women just because I'm a woman. That's only part of who I am. I feel no loyalty to every woman on the planet just because of anatomy. That would be like me sticking by the D.C. sniper just because he's Black and I am too! I assume that you're in a situation were a woman is trying to come in between you and your mate. Just remember: She can't have him if he doesn't want her.

Answer 3

I think the real question are:

"why do men that are already in relationships try to have a woman on the side?"

Some men try to have their cake and eat it too. It's not only the women, you'd be so surprised...Most of the time it's the men also leading women on...trying to have their cake and eat it too. So if a man allows a woman to continually approach him...it's not one-sided.

"why do women get blamed when men indulge in extra-curricular acitivities"....as an outside relationship

"why do men try to act innocent?..and develop the "It wasn't me " line

A woman can't be on a man unless that man consents, they can only do what the men allow them to do. " Why do women always go after the woman?, they should go after their man. The man is the one that is supposed to be committed to them, not the woman

I don't condone women nor men cheating on husbands/wives. But most people blame the woman, but the man deserves half the blame.

Answer 4

red: A great question ! I've had the same experience numerous times. When I was solo [alone] , girls were here a little ... there a little. When I had a girl friend, girl's walked into my life by the score. I think girls can be mean and want to get back at their fathers by destroying another guy's relationship . Guys sometimes get all the heat for being mean to girls.

Answer 5

Well why do men let the women go with them? If they were real men they would deny the woman...but still the woman should not go after a guy who is in a relationship. It just shows how low women will go these days.

Answer 6

Women are basically good in nature....they got no wrong intention when they are going after a man who is in a relation. Believe me, women just want to be a friend with that man or maybe the man is her ideal choice but she would never interrupt in the relation...she may accept him if the relation breaks. Its just natural to go after someone u like..no matter what he is doing...
But women retain their self..as a women.

Answer 7

There are infinite answers to this question, but the only thing you need to reasure yourself in is that HE is with YOU. If this girl was to tear your bf away from you, then you know he wasn't worth all the trouble in the first place. This just means your bf cares about you and isn't just using you.

As far as telling this other girl off, don't. This will cause more unwanted conflict. If you haven't tries it yet, talk to her about it. Tell her you don't appreciate her hitting on your man. you might learn something just from that talk. If she continues or tries to start a fight, walk away and don't bring yourself to her level. It'll only make things worse.

Answer 8

They aren't woman enough to get a man of their own. ..... My friends laugh at me, because I will tear up a man who tries to get involved with me and I find out he's in a relationship already. Yes you can find out, my favorite way is to ask them to borrow their cell phone, when they ask why, I say "so I can put my number in it" if they're single they hand it over hella fast, if they're not they have any excuse. That's because their wife's/girlfriend's numbers are on speed or send dial, and you will see it if you push send. Especially if they are out without her. I love to make them look as stupid and sorry as they are. I have embarrassed many men publicly, because of this. This one guy tried to hit on me in a parking lot, he had a car seat in his car. I mean, do I look that stupid? I started laughing so loud and hard, I yelled "are you high, there's a car seat in your car, you're a D**K". My bestfriend ran away. Everybody looked at him. He couldn't even talk. he just left. Women, how can men respect us, if we don't respect each other. Get your own. Sorry your did whatever. Happy Holidays though.

Answer 9

cause the man is already taken....meaning since he has a woman and she is staying...he must be a good catch. so instead of trying to find their own, they take the short road and try to steal others.

never works....either the guy is smart enough to see the tramp coming a mile away or he's dumb enough to go with her in turn destroying the good relationship he had.

people need to remember what a wedding band means and how the commitment is with.....2 people and God.

Adultery is against the bible and commandments, and its a sin for both sides.

Answer 10

It is just infatuation...If one wanted lasting relationship one would be more choosy about the interiors rather than the exteriors...It is said that it is better to accept a person who loves you rather than one whom you love (it could be partially correct. Because the other person may have not been attracted by your good inner qaualities and infatuated with externalities that may not sustain the interest for long!)

Answer 11

I think that is only some women. I personally would not. I think those other women like the idea of "stealing" a man or something. It's lame.