My bf is really shy...too shy. Sometimes I think that he doesn't care about me...but this Christmas, I want to kiss him on the lips. (Only thirteen, okay?) I don't want to get rejected though, b/c he said one time, "this is too fast." But then again, i kissed him on the cheek...I'm just really confused, and no if i should kiss him!
2006-12-18 13:15:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when u kissed him on the cheek did he mind? if u r plannign to kiss him dont do it when its akward. it would just feel right. if he looks like he wants to kiss u then go ahead. u could even ask him if he would feel comfortable if guys kissed. dont try to rush things and just let them happen naturally :)
2006-12-18 13:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by beatles luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 11:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by kluesner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not ready yet.
So, just hang out with him and sit close to him, and if the opportunity comes by, then just go for it. But if he is shy, keep your mouth closed.
And there is no rush. Take your time and enjoy the innocence while it lasts.
I saw on the Oprah show a few years back about 12, 13 and 14 year old girls having babies. That is WAY too young to even be having sex - in my opinion.
Enjoy being young, and take your time.
2006-12-18 13:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both are still so young...dont do it if he is not ready sweet:)
he should feel comforable doing it with you first...let him be the one who kiss you on the lips. When he is ready, he will do it.
Meanwhile;just kiss him on the cheek and telll him how much do you care about him..that a sweet thing to do too..:)
hugs
2006-12-18 13:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the magic of Christmas help you with this! Tell him first that you are going to give him a very special gift, tell him to close his eyes and then kiss him.... He will love it!
2006-12-18 13:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by Nicky71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the time feels right go ahead and plop him with a good one! It's Christmas afterall! but make sure he is comfortable because if he isn't it could totally ruin the mood!
2006-12-18 13:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by lova_gal5511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss is something special, you're probably really eager to just get it over with, but if you just force it won't be as magical. And he could even get mad
2006-12-18 13:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have u been going out. and im 13 and never had a boyfriend, well y dont u spend christmas together and pop him there
2006-12-18 13:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by Milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...awkward situation. i guess your gonna have to ask him if it would be all right. but that would a little embarassing. if you guys email or write to each other then you could say something about a certain christmas present you want (hint hint)
2006-12-18 13:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been going out?
some boys have to wait a while before they feel
comfortable with that
a relantonship is all about communicatoin
maybe you can try asking instead
2006-12-18 13:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by A BeAtLe LuVeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋