(I know) and at the beginning of relationship he's told me hes loved me wanted to be with me ALL the time, asked me out to eat... and i always was sorta turned off because of his age... and now that i took the time, im totally amazed. i am so crazy about this guy now.. and it seems like the tables have turned..he wants to give up the relationship. hes told me he wants to try to make things work but hes really not the same person he was when i met him... he doesnt try nearly as hard to make me happy.. he doesnt offer to cook any more doesnt want buy anything stopped getting flowers... he's been rude to me, and hes been interupting me a lot latley like he doesnt even want me to talk and like hes innoyed... what should i do?
2006-12-18 13:09:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first age doesnt matter at all just talk to him
2006-12-18 13:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by mikysmith1234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be that being with a younger woman made him feel better about himself. So he bought you will food and flowers and looked at you with longing. And you responded and guess what - that was his payoff. Now he will look for some other younger girl and try to win again. It is a game. And you will need to ask yourself if you want to play a losing game with him or say 'bye' Game players are not good for lasting relationships. Tell yourself you have learned a lesson and be wary next time. Your first impression was to be turned off. Often first impressions are right.
2006-12-18 21:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Marty B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wanted you when you weren't into,now that things have progressed,into something possibly,its not what he wants. Move on,he is indecisive and rude,as you stated.
Don't base the relationship upon the things he did for you,but the reactions he gave,and the conversations you've had.
Move on dear,and let the past be the past.
2006-12-18 21:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there are many answers to this question. Just talk to him. And age is trul only a number. It doesn't work out for some people. But for some it does. Just start out by talking to him.
2006-12-18 21:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think that u should pop the question. " What do you hope to gain out of this relationship". Then from there u would pretty much know what to do.
2006-12-18 21:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by spicywannaknow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe move on!! He is giving u all the signals!!
2006-12-18 21:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋