I really like this guy and i think he likes me too. He called me the other day for no apparent reason really. I thouhgt this was a good sign so I sent him text mesage..a joke, he liked it and told my friend that he found it funny. She told me he was really excited about me sending him the message. so the day after she told me about his reaction i sent another one..now he seems to be ignoring me...do you think its because he knows that my friend told me about his reaction and he didnt want me to know or is it that i am pushing it?
2006-12-18 12:58:20 · 7 answers · asked by Bloo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that he really likes you, but he's just shy and doesn't quite know how to react.... If you were some girl that he didn't like, why would he go out of his way to tell ur friend that he got ur text message.. he didn't have to. Don't send anymore messages though.. unless he sends one to you. And don't stress too much over it, things will work out.
2006-12-19 04:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Other sheep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be many things. I'll try to keep the list to the most likely possibilities.
1. He has changing views of women and after some thought, may not be into you. See if his behavior remains consistent.
2. He is trying to play hard to get, doesn't want to seem too desperate, etc. Some people do that.
3. He is really busy. It happens. Just because you feel like he's ignoring you doesn't mean he's doing it on purpose.
No matter what it is, though... I'd recommend backing off and focusing on something else for awhile. Don't make him feel ignored, but don't push it too hard or obsess over it. You're your own person, and you can find things to do with your time. If he does still like you, it'll show, and if not...well, you weren't serious so you didn't lose much.
2006-12-18 13:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by JDB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if hes afraid or not . he could have alot of things going on right now. try sending him a friendly message and ask him if hes alright and just say hi. if he doesn't respond then just let it go. your friend may have said something to him that freaked him out so just keep that in mind and leave your friend out cause u never know what was really said.
2006-12-18 13:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Back off and see what happens, time will tell, but i would bet that he is a guy, and just forgets easy, probably forgot you even sent him a message
2006-12-18 13:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by jadelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't send him anything for a while and see if he calls you within a week. If not, then try to talk to him and see what's going on with him and if he does, don't be pushy. But I think it will work out for you!!
2006-12-18 13:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his mom or his girlfriend saw it. Don't be so aggressive,,,you dropped the bait, so stop reeling it in and give the fish a chance to bite.
2006-12-18 13:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by lilyvix2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some times its best to let them do the chasing.he knows how you feel it may be time to let him show you how he feels
2006-12-18 13:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by teadropsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋