A girl I met gave me her number and I gave mine. We talked for 3 hours the next day. She gave me a call the following day but I was not at home so I phone her back the next day. We talked for 1 and half hours over the phone. So I asked if I can call her again sometimes, she said yes and she would call me too. But told me she doesn't want a relationship right now but a friend because she would be going to college. So I phone her again the next day. I got hold of her but she said if she could phone me back because she has a visitor - a good friend - and ask me what time I am still up. Is she avoiding me? I known her for only 4 days. Should I phone her still? Or just let her go and move on? Or should I wait for a few days and wait for her call? What do you think guys?
2006-12-18 12:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by Confuse_Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on...
2006-12-18 13:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been on both sides of the phone...the bugger and the recipient of...neither one is pleasant. I bugged the guy because I had no confidence. There were times when I did wait, there were times when I called too much. Either way communication is a touchy subject. Next time you talk see what is best for both of you and what will work. Try to communicate about communication.
2006-12-18 21:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, do not become a bugaboo!! Meaning that you should give her some space, but at the same time, don't forget about her because if you call her too much, she will feel uncomfortable but call like a couple of days and then give her time to call you. Trust me, it will work. Just keep yourself busy and I'm sure everything will be just fine!!
2006-12-18 20:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. with what details you gave me... u guys rnt even together.. and she has a friend over.... most visitors would consider it rude if the host was on the phone for longer than a minute anyway... i think u guys r reading too much into this.
PS
dont call her so much or youll come off as clingy... girls hate clingy guys
2006-12-18 20:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she is avoiding you, if she talked to you for that long then she likes you. I would wait a couple of days and call her back, you dont want her to feel like your obsessed with her.
2006-12-18 20:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Demetria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats right its rude to talk on the phone when u have visiters. ring her again and ask her if she has time to talk if she hasnt ask her to ring you back and wait time will tell?
2006-12-18 20:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her call you . . .
if you call once, you're seeing what's up
twice, you're worried
and three times you're stalking her
she'll appreciate you giving her space . . . but if you can't stand it, give her a call in a FEW days- give her time to miss you!!
2006-12-18 20:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by _ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go with the the person who answerd first
2006-12-18 20:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by x-c runner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phone her still
2006-12-18 20:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋