i am in public a lot but i cant go and talk to girls.. the problem is i dont know what to say ..or where to start?
i see the girls that i like all the time, and when i can not go there and express my self i just want to kill my self..
it is not true all the time though.. like if i want to ask a question or if i know exactly what i want i go and ask them easily (like an address or for marketing purpose). but when it comes to the girls that i like i just like ..... :O what should i do?
2006-12-18 12:25:29 · 11 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omgosh i agree w/ Jazz! i cant really give you a script of what to say but...make her smile!!! i luv it when guys make me smile!
2006-12-18 12:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Poptart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont just ask a simple question like where's the nearest [any place]
Because once they give you an answer you're kind of expected to go on your way. So even if the girl was interested in you she won't just start talking to you after that since she'll think that you just wanted the answer to your question.
The ideal thing to talk about is how our day was. It'll get them opening up to how they are feeling and girls like to vent their frustration, happiness, disappointment, you name it. They will talk about their day to almost anyone who might be interested. Just be completely sincere when you ask and actually listen. Hopefully, you'll get to know more about them and then the next day you can ask more questions.
Take things nice and slow and mean what you say. That really means alot to us and we take lots of interest in caring, thoughtful, and sincere guys. I think this is a general way to break the ice.
Of course flirting and other ways arent too bad but they dont always work for everyone so be aware of the type of girl and try to keep her in her comfort zone!
good luck
2006-12-18 12:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by India 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attitude the lady whilst your ex isn't around. Why no longer ask to borrow her notes from type or tell her you could favored some help and ask in case you need to learn jointly. shop touch in guy or woman and are not getting into the silliness of texting or chatting. those are too impersonal and pass away something which will properly be shown to human beings you won't opt to make certain it. until you broke up with your ex decrease than decrease than suited circumstances do no longer worry approximately something she would say. it may be much less difficult for you if this new lady and you share some friends. then you certainly can set up something social with them and ask her alongside.
2016-10-18 11:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time it's easiest to start conversations by interests that you share with a girl. Such as, if you hang out in a music store or something of the ilk, somewhere that you have knowledge and interest in, you can instigate conversation between a girl easily, without having to fake mutual interest in anything /she/ likes.
2006-12-18 12:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by No one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look up David DeAngelo material online. You will get your answer there. I cant explain it to you. There are so many ways of doing the same thing that will break the ice with women. But if I could make a generalization.....treat girls like you treat a sibling.
2006-12-18 12:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of good ways to do it, have to be original though, try taking an ice cube up to one, putting it on the counter, smashing it and saying now that I've broken the ice can I buy you a drink? or another that I thought was good to was, My friend over there wants to know if you think I'm cute....but the best place to start...Hi, what is your name?
2006-12-18 12:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen you around before, how you doing - by the way what is your name we've never been introduced. Ask for their number or e-mail address. You can say it is okay if I give you a call later.
Girls don't bite.
2006-12-18 12:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When getting to know someone you....
ask them questions about themselves
talk about things, people, places you have in common
never take yourself too serious
be interesting
2006-12-18 12:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to em nd be like ey baby so i see ur looking pretty good. my buddy's throwin a party(or watever u want) nd i waz just wondering if u'd like to come. then she'll say yes nd be like can i take ur number
2006-12-18 12:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them about themselves. Most people enjoy talking about themselves so it shouldn't be too hard. But it helps if you are genuinely interested;)
good luck!
2006-12-18 12:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by luv2travel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like a girl can i talk to you for a minute then be like i was watching you and you look good girl then be like so can i get your number and take you to the movies or out to eat sometimes and then be like you wanna dance then start dancing with her
2006-12-18 12:29:58 · answer #11 · answered by Heaven L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋