well its been 3 month that i have start University. i used to think if i enter Uni it would be as easy as a pie to find girls.. but it turns out to be exactly opposite. no one wait after the class for a little chat. and during the lecture every one pretend that they are very busy taking notes. so there is no time to talk to them (girls). also on campus activities are all like small Gangs that know each other from high school. i am a 21 year old male.
2006-12-18 12:11:26 · 6 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Dining Out ➔ Canada ➔ Toronto
My little bro had the same issue, except that girls come up to him now because they discovered he was a shy type, but respectful. I guess it helps he is a lead guitarist too.
Anyway, do this:
-Go up to a girl with confidence and a smile, don't be too hyper.
-Say something out of the blue to her (you don't necessarily have to go for girls in your class, eventually if it doesn't work out it could become awkward)
-When you say what you are going to say to her, make sure it's something kind of interesting... say it calmly as if you already know her... just pretend you know her, this is key and the key to having the confidence in your mindset.
So, be calm, confident, be smart, and make sure that you act like you already know her... this is how you will come across as being cool, calm, collected, confident.
Best of luck.
2006-12-21 02:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by jons_plan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you like? You are legal so you can get into the clubs and bars, so you could met them there. Movies, TO has so many movie theatres. Museums. I don't know what subjects you are taking, but study dates are an easy in. You don't have to be one on one with the girl at first on the study dates, more in a group to get to know them first. When its easier to talk to them, then you work into to it. The common room, hang out, challenge one to a game of pool, Foosball, ping pong with a drink as the prize. If you suck, all the better. But make it a close game. Otherwise its not worth her time, and neither are you.
Or you didn't catch all the professor's lecture, ask to borrow the girl's notes and you'll return them tomorrow...
Familiarity is the first step to being notice and talking to them. Stalking and hounding them isn't going to work. Its going to come off as creepy and desperate. No, I am not saying that you are actually doing that, I am just warning you.
If I knew more about you, I might be a bit more help. I think you are just stressing too much. I wouldn't mind talking more on msn, sometime if you are interested. jynnympy.
2006-12-20 12:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So, it was as easy as you have got it just 'Jenny' now!
School is worst place as everyone has stress of exams; try nightclubs at College & Bathurst Area or Little Italy.
However, the best place to find a lot of girls is at 'gym'!
IF you hang around gym for few minutes, tens of them would ask you:
Excuse me can you help me to lift this?
Excuse me do you know how it works?
Excuse me can you spot me?
2006-12-21 00:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but if your grammar is any indication, i am surprised you got accepted. Everyone pretends that they are taking notes? Been there, done that, thats why its called a lecture.
2006-12-21 23:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by jen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are the temptation of Satan himself. You are better off without paying heed to them.
You are an adult, so you could always find a local strip club instead.
2006-12-18 20:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Freddy Krueger 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get your money back from the university because you obviously arent too smart.
2006-12-18 20:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋