I hate my mum!!!!?

Question

i hate my mum im only 13 so i CANT move out i hate my dad he lives somewhere else and i dont wanna live with him everything i ask of my mum is a NO and to go to the movies i HAVE 2 PAY i cant get money though cause she recons i will hate that paper job shes ALWAYS saying that i cant do things and that id hate em not only that there is something REALLY important that i need to go to i cant tell her what because my friend doesnt want her to know iv gotter be there with her my mum is ALWAYS saying that she hates me that im a desature and she keeps having babys shes one ****** up mum she recons im spolit AS IF i hate her and i cant get away cause my dad wont let me live anywhere else i want to be put up for adoption i hate her what can i do? and when i try to work things out she walks away or yells she says shes sick of doing things for me when she does the normal shitty mum things like cleaning making us dinna etc she never takes us out or anything :'( i hate her how do i get away? thankz

Answer 1

Caitlin, it sounds to me like you're writing this soon after you had a falling out with your mother. What is the reason your mom and dad have split? Are they divorced? DO you have any siblings? If so, how does your mom care for them? Is she overworked, underpaid and overstressed? I can see why you would be upset if she's taking some adult problems out on you. Your situation is not much different than most 13 year olds. I remember hating my parents and I remember always wanting to run away or move out and I would scheme with my friends about leaving but it would always fall through. I think the best thing for you is to realize that although we dont always agree with the things our parents do and that although we dont always get to do the things we want, that it wont always be this way. Im sure your mother isnt intentionally keeping you from having a good time. But maybe there is a bigger picture that she's not sharing with you. maybe she doesnt have the money or the time or maybe she's just stressed.

So the next time you both argue or if you want something and she's quick to say no, just sit back and think for a minute why this is??? And you may feel better. I wish the best for you and your family.

Answer 2

I can tell that you are very angry when you wrote this. 13 is a hard time, because you are inbetween being a child and a teenager....and I am sure that you, like most kids your age want the freedom of being a teenager. How about if you try to help your mom out around the house, and proove to her that you are mature and responsible. Try to become closer, and maybe you will have more out of life that you want...and maybe a new friend as well! (mum) :)) *hugs* (from a mom)

Answer 3

Me Too. its spelled mom

i hate my mum im only 13 so i CANT move out i hate my dad he lives somewhere else and i dont wanna live with him everything i ask of my mum is a NO and to go to the movies i HAVE 2 PAY i cant get money though cause she recons i will hate that paper job shes ALWAYS saying that i cant do things and that id hate em not only that there is something REALLY important that i need to go to i cant tell her what because my friend doesnt want her to know iv gotter be there with her my mum is ALWAYS saying that she hates me that im a desature and she keeps having babys shes one ****** up mum she recons im spolit AS IF i hate her and i cant get away cause my dad wont let me live anywhere else i want to be put up for adoption i hate her what can i do? and when i try to work things out she walks away or yells she says shes sick of doing things for me when she does the normal shitty mum things like cleaning making us dinna etc she never takes us out or anything :'( i hate her how do i get away? thankz

Answer 4

i know how frustrating it is being told "No" all the time. that's how my mom was too. you're young, but you only have a few years before you're driving. so you've got that to look forward to. try to focus on doing well in school and being sucessful, so when you get out of school you can go away to collage and have a great job. You won't need to depend on her or you're dad. when you're frustrated find a way to vent at someone (like your doing now, thru Answers) or to a friend.
it gets better, you've gotten thru 13 years, what's a few more, right? you'll make it!

Answer 5

at least your parents are around, when i was your age my dad had pissed off with another woman and my mum was constantly drunk. you should be thankfull for what you have. your old enough to help out aswell so grow up and stop whining like a little brat. if you want to be treated like an adult act like one.

Answer 6

OMG ur mom sound pritty sh*ty im so sorry my mum is like that 2

Answer 7

Please, go talk with a teacher or counselor at school. They can help you.