hey im lee im 14 and if you read my other question "am i rushing" you would no about my boy problem but anywaiiz i have been so scared of being rejected by a guy... ive been rejected to other things to.. like giving a christmas presant and stuff like that and i have never gave a presant scince 3rd grade witch was 5 years ago .. im in 8th now and i have been rejected 3 times by a boy and i am so scared to open up to someone or try to let someone in.... is this normal?
2006-12-18 11:59:51 · 5 answers · asked by MICKIE JAMES #1 FAN 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Just realize that they are completely missing out on something great!
2006-12-18 12:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normally, unfortunatly. but if i was you, and i could go back to being 14, i would avoid guys for another...oh say, 20, 30 maybe 40 years. Once you get burned once, it doesn't stop there and it just gets harder and harder and harder. You will come to a point where you dont want to be burned anymore, and so you give up. You are young still. You have been rejected a few times, but not that much. It hurts alot because its new to you and you haven't had to deal with it before. If possible, just avoid guys for now, and leave them be. The right one will come when its the right time. Dont go after it. The more you go after it, the more you get hurt, and rejected.
2006-12-18 20:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by College Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its normal....everybodies afraid of somethin and being afraid of rejection well i personaly think just about everybodies afraid of dat.....but you get to da point where it really doesnt bother you anymore and somethin to help you not get rejected is lettin da person or whateva it is come to first but you gota be willin to wait:)
2006-12-18 20:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by lilnaychulita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me it's normal.I have never been rejected, because i have never asked, i'm also afraid of being rejected, your not alone. Sum up all your courage and ask him.
2006-12-18 20:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Arnold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're afraid of rejection and don't try anything, you'll never get anything you want.
2006-12-18 20:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Green thumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋