I've liked this guy since I was in 3 grade. We are going out. The other day I told him i loved him.He said I love you 2. Well instaed of walking up too me and talking he walks up to this girl right beside me and starts talking to her. I get really mad. and then he walks up too another group of girls and starts talking to them. should I break up with him? What else could I do?
2006-12-18 11:53:54 · 1 answers · asked by DAnne :] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As this sounds like it is the first semi-serious relationship for both of you this is a growing pain that you will both need to work through. Ask yourself and your friends if they think you are overly sensitive because you told him you loved him and think that you should be the only girl in his eyes...life doesn't work that way...you still have to interact with the rest of the world. If that is not the reason, or only part of it, it could be HE is feeling vulnerable because he said he loved you, or he could now feel too restricted because he told you he loved you and he is not really ready to be in a committed exclusive relationship even though he cares a lot about you...getting you to break up with him gives him a guilt-free out.
You need calmly set up a time to get together in person to discuss your feelings and see what can be worked out.
2006-12-21 03:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋