i do every thing i mean everything for this guy and he has been mad at me for a week he won't say what is wrong or if i done something wrong but i know i haven't he get mad when i say i had t go to work. everytime i drive his car and if something go wrong he blames me if someone fix the car and something is not right he blames me he has been mean to me for a week now he acts like he hates me or he don't like me he's on house arrest he could have been bonded off but he acts like he don't want me to go to work he always got his friends there when i come from work i just don't know what to do it hurts me because i know i didn't do anything it seems like i never do enough or like i never please him every time he want's sex he gets it i never say no to him i just don't know what to do i need help . someone please give some kind of advice.
2006-12-18 11:52:24 · 13 answers · asked by apples26@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has this gone on for just a week or your entire 11 year relationship? Because it sounds like you are a victim of domestic violence, which includes emotional hurt, not just physical. You relationship sounds very bad, especially since the communication is cut and you also give into him and always give him what he wants without getting reciprocity for your deeds or kindness. This is very one-sided. I suggest, if talking to him does no good, to find a local domestic violence office and speak with someone in confidence about all of this. They may be able to help you. It sounds to me like you should leave this person, he can be bad for your mental health so don't wait till it's too late and you wind up a wreck on prozac. Do it for yourself and your children! I wish you the best.
2006-12-18 11:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back off some! He has learned that you will do whatever he wants no matter how he treats you--so now you have no respect. You don't have to be mean, or nasty, just back away, let him do some things himself. Let him see reasons TO respect you. You need to be respecting yourself. Taking care of your own needs first is not selfish! Go to work, exercise, and take care of your body and mind, put funds aside in savings for yourself. If he can't get on board with that, you would be better off alone.
2006-12-18 12:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by irate wench 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the giver, and he is the taker. He also sounds possesive and bossy. No one can walk around on eggshells and be happy. I would drop him, you can make it without him, even if you have 3 kids together. You dont need a man who is in trouble with the law anyway. But if you decide you wont get rid of him, then stand up for yourself. Tell him to quit putting all his s#%* off on you. He walks on you because he can..dont let him.
2006-12-18 12:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by jeannie64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the feeling that whatever he will ask you will not deny so his behavior is so strange. Tell him frankly your emotions and your feelings. Don't just accept what he wants all the time. Let him realize that you are a partner not a servant at his command. Deny him the things which you do not like. You have your own individuality and choice. Express it with sound, clear and loud manner.
2006-12-18 12:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Pramod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 11:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not mad at you but he's taking out his emotional defficiencies out on you. Youre the strong and sweet one and he's weak and crappy and under house arrest! He's not a good provider or family man and you'll not fix him by staying with him.
Please get out, separate for a time...maybe he will change at realizing his great great loss. You ARE too good for him dear.
2006-12-18 11:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet this has been an on-going problem, I think you should leave him and part ways. It sounds much easier than it actually is, especially when kids are involved.
2006-12-18 12:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to get piss@. ignore him. he sounds like a real winner. house arrest?
do what you have to do. he is the one depending on you to keep up the bills etc. if he doesn't like it too dam@ bad!!!
2006-12-18 12:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to learn the use of a period. I don't mean menstruation. I mean punctuation. Your rambling reads like a Mexican auctioneer.
2006-12-18 11:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He maybe finding his true feelings. Ask him what is going on, does he want out?
2006-12-18 11:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋