How many times a day is it ok to call your ex,if he broke up with you,but he still calls you,atleast once..?

Question

a day.we still have feelings for each other,he said that he doesnt want 2 have a relationship but,he still has feelings for me,how can i let him know that i still want 2 be with him without being a bug all da time,and give ihm his spaced,next month was going 2 be our 1 yr anniversary.WHAT DO I DO?HELP!plz

Answer 1

He sounds ambivalent about the relationship. Frankly, if you want him back and he isn't sure, you should give him a time frame and let him know you will be sticking to it, as to his decision about what he wants to do about the relationship. He should only need a certain amount of time (like a week or two) to decide. If he can't figure it out, he's not worth hanging onto. Putting you through mind games like calling you every day when he was the one who broke up is manipulative and immature. He needs to figure out what he wants (without contact between the two of you) and then let you know his decision. Otherwise, drop him. There are terrific men out there who won't put you through something like this.

Answer 2

DO NOT CALL HIM AT ALL!!!!

Let me explain: I used to be a girl that pined away for a guy. Wanted to be with him, so I'd tell him. Now, I don't act like that. Why? Because if you tell a guy you want them, they won't want you. Or they will, but they think you'll always be there waiting for them so they'll pursue other relationships and save yours for later.

Ditch him! I'm not saying that you shouldn't have feelings for him, because you can't help who you like. I'm saying, find something else to do. Start going out with friends and when he calls don't answer every time. Sometimes, when he calls let it ring, even if you're not doing anything. This will make him wonder what you're doing and make him realize that you're not going to be waiting around for him forever! If he really does have feelings for you and is not just playing around with you, then he'll realize he's eventually going to lose you.

Answer 3

18 times

Answer 4

Girl guys hate to be ignored. Try not calling him even if you want to really bad. Play the same game and watch him start sweating you. And yes I have done this many times and you know what, it works like a charm.

Answer 5

Well...have confidence to know that you don't have to hear from this gentleman every day, to know he's interested.

Sometimes a playing a little hard to get, doesn't hurt anyone. Keep your head up...and keep striving forward. If the feeling's are there...nothing would stop you two from talking.

Good luck!

Answer 6

How many times... a DAY? More like a week. And at that, once. If that. Personally, I wouldn't call him at all. Keep your distance, after all, he IS your ex.

If he's calling you once a day anyway, why would you need to call him at all? There's absolutely NOTHING that can really justify calling "just to talk" more than once a day.

Answer 7

But he doesn't want to be with you, he told you. It is a no win situation, but let go. I would erase his number and not take his calls. The pain will never go away if you keep opening the wound.

Answer 8

i know what you mean. i was with my ex for 2 and half years. i havnt called him but like twice out of the month we have been broken up. give him his space. thats what he wants. dont push him away. just call him like everyother day or something. not too much.

Answer 9

i have a similar problem...i just give it time and give her space and things will work out

Answer 10

why call someone who doesn't want to be with you? He dated you, he got to know you, and he decided he doesn't want to be with you. And you want him.... why? Move on. Stop calling.