Well, this will probably sound extremely little kiddish, but I'm in junior high, so I've got myself a boyfriend. Of course, we don't do much. Actually, we really do nothing. Not much talking. Barely hanging out. And well if you don't do those things, it's impossible to do something else. I'm also always worryin he likes another girl from a different school. Well anyways, what I'm asking about it the fact that I have been talking to my ex boyfriend on the phone a lot lately. A lot a lot.. And I don't find it wrong, and I'm going to trust my gut instinct, but I would like some other people's opinions. Thanks!
2006-12-18 11:28:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just consider it this way would you be upset if he was talking to his ex girlfriend if not then your not wrong but if so i would say you might be wrong
2006-12-18 11:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by eaccheerleader 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Really, I don't find it wrong to talk with your ex, but you may want to not talk as much as u are. You should always trust your gut. But the whole other girl gots u worried deal, you should do a little research. I thought my bf like a different girl at first, but then only to find out, the she liked him and he was avoiding her. So I'm saying don't take what you think is right all the way , until you know the proof.
2006-12-18 11:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by hoopstar126 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know the answer better than all. YES it is WRONG; it is cheating!
BUT you want an excuse that by these 'no' answers to satisfy your guilt!
Cheating is crime and you should not practice it, otherwise you would never get chance to have a 'good' family and children in future. Just think IF your MOM or DAD was doing the same! What you would feel; what other would say about your family!
2006-12-18 11:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try having some fun. Make some jokes and tease a little. Play some games together. Talk extra more yourself about things you are interested in. Unless you are planning to marry either one of these guys, I do not see anything wrong with spending time with both of them. Get to know a lot of guys, there's no real reason at this point in your life to say I belong to this one guy, or this one guy belongs to me. Spend time with your dad.
2006-12-18 11:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Gary B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds okay but maybe you and your current guy should sit down and chat about your relationship and what it's position is. if you both agree neither have one and you know it's pointless to keep going then just drop the title of boyfriend and both of you should just go do what you are toying with whcih is another person. doesn't sound like you'd break each other's hearts much so why worry?
2006-12-18 11:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go where the action is sweetheart. It's not wrong, ur present bf is missing out on some sweet something else, so it's his loss for the neglect. Follow ur heart.
2006-12-18 11:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, I don't think it's wrong,but does your bf now know that you are talking to your ex. Maybe the reason you guys don't do any thing because maybe you 2 or scared or shy what ever, but don't rush,but do something before it's to late..
2006-12-18 11:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by LALALALALALALALALALA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the heck? How are u boyfriends with that guy. I think u just like to say ur boyfriend and girlfriend. People ur age do that. Stick with ur boyfriend not ex. Good luck!
2006-12-18 11:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i dont think it is wrong i just today got done with a relationship that was the same way im in 8th grade junio high and i was in the same dilema and then i started hanging out with his cuzin we kissed and now we are dating but they dont always end like that u just make sure u dont do anythign else with your ex just keep it simple dont complicate your life
love jary
2006-12-18 11:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust in the Gut.
2006-12-18 11:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not wrong..you don't even know what luv is yet..you're just a little kitty kat. Just keep chatting to whoevah u want to. You have your whole life to get it right.
Hugs,
from Shayla
2006-12-18 11:31:57 · answer #11 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋