what is one to do?

Question

i have been with my b/f for 3 yrs in these 3 yrs he hasnt had a job. i've been trying to leave him but every time i try he is in total deinial. What should i do?

Answer 1

In three years he hasn't had a job?! You are going to have to assert yourself and do a better job for yourself.

Answer 2

tell him if you guys ever want to move in together and have a future then he needs to grow up and get a job. so he can support you.

Answer 3

just leave him one day, don't worry about what he says, tell him he needs a job or u don't want to be with him. gl