i give u guys some examples he want to stay in the hospital because it free ,sleep in the van , make a house out of straw i mean i dont even see what he's saving his money for
2006-12-18 11:23:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a new bf. Do not try to change people*
2006-12-18 11:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by tbear 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well can do a couple things...maybe stop being so needy or make your own money and spoil him...
I am thinking that your examples are a little extreme. And in the event that you are beinging totally honest about it...well he is not going to change enough to make you happy. So either take care of him - or - take a hike.
2006-12-18 19:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by behr28 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't know really how to answer htis because guys have there phases but this sounds like a problem. I don't think it is ever possible for a guy to stop being cheap unlike the movies where the go through a life expirience and learn what really is important but anywasy you may try to tlak to him about it but other wise there isn't anything oyu can really do that's just how he is and he may never get over (unfortuantely) but i hope everything works out and he realzes being cheap is just as bad as being a jerk.
2006-12-18 19:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by bluedeyedprincess 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't make him anything. One thing my mother taught me and she is right. "What you see is what you get". She said make sure you are happy with a man just the way he is, because you are not going to change him.
You can tell him what you prefer and why, but if he doesn't care about your feelings enough to change that, then you will have to make a decision. Adapt to him the way he is or cut your losses and find someone else.
2006-12-18 19:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Calina 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ha ha ha that's pretty funny sorry okay look you can't make him not cheap he is who he is maybe if you are a materialistic girl you need to find someone who can full fill your needs and wants cause obviously this guy isn't going to....but tell him hay is cheaper then straw
2006-12-18 19:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by britty 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could start by getting your lazy a-ss out and earning good money so you know what men have to go through every day. And not just some Wal-Mart job or a child care job, go make partner in a law firm. If you're not willing to do this, shut your mouth.
2006-12-18 19:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
My dear... He is the way he is.. I guess you must love him the way he is... if this is something that bothers you that much...maybe you should not be together.
Have you spoken about this with him? Does he even know he makes you feel that way? Have you thought that he can actually be a frugal guy?
2006-12-18 19:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mar Yam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he's acting like he wants to move back in with his mom, and you don't want to become his convenient second choice. To hell with having to raise a boyfriend. He needs to grow up.
2006-12-18 19:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can take him out and show him what it is like to not be so cheap and make him go shopping with you or something like that i am guessing
2006-12-18 19:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what planet does he live on if he thinks staying in the hospital is free? LOL good one
2006-12-18 19:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋