I get into simple talk with both married and unmarried women....sometimes the married women , in my age range, seem to treat me very well than unmarried ones. What does that show? And they, married woman , in the way she /they treat me, always make me raise the bar I have for the girls I need to want to date....I don't know...I don't need to rush into asking the girl by looks only.....but I am so confused about love...help.....can't even ask the thing I was thinking...I am that confused...?
2006-12-18 11:14:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, the married women that you meet raise your standards for the single women around you, and the single women around you don't impress? I think that's what you're saying...
Keep in mind that married women have some experiance with long-term relationships. They (generally) know what is needed for them to work. Single women are in the process of learning what is needed. Find someone you are willing to learn with. It takes time and commitment to have that kind of maturity that you are looking for. I hope that answers your question.
2006-12-18 11:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married or not you can count on one thing. You will never fully understand women. It is not for us to know I guess.
However I believe that the reason married women treat you better is they have no reason to be talking to you except for a friendly chat. Sure some are looking but are in no big hurry.
If you are talking about women appearing to be attracted to you or not you have to understand one thing. Attraction is not a choice. It is not something any one can just decide they will do. They either are or their not.
Each women.....just like men....are looking for something that tells them this guy is right....or wrong.... for her. A single women may have this at the top of their list. If they are looking for mister right they don't want to fool around with Mr. wrong any longer than they have to. So they test you. This tells them in short order what you are like. Often we have no idea they are doing this.
If we pass those tests were in....if we don't....well there is always the next one.
If may be that married women do not need to do that. With that out of the way they can talk to you like anyone else. So you feel they treat you better. Just a wild guess.
2006-12-18 11:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means there is some quality about you that the single girls dont' like. If they are married they don't feel like they have to fight off your advances so they are more relaxed and you think they are treating you nicer.
You need to find out what it is about you that is making the single girls creeped out. Ask a good friend who is a girl, if you could chagne one thing about yourself that would make you more attractive to women what would it be?
2006-12-18 11:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married just older and wiser more relaxed with who? where? why?
single women younger playing the field they know if a date doesnt work out with curly ...curly sue is always available!!!
in no way am I saying go for married women ...
im separated 12 years with young friend and he says this all the time ..about women.. his age they can take or leave a guy...cuz they young and fun...and u know the rest...LOL...
try some one single few years older u might be surprised...
2006-12-18 11:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋