My friend and I are having a discussion about this.
2006-12-18 11:00:35 · 18 answers · asked by Jacinda 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One person cannot own another person. The guy should feel honored that the girl accepted the ring, not feel as though he is better than her. It is a ring, not a leash or a liscense.
I think that a ring means commitment, for example: a wedding ring. It also means that you want to wear this person's ring and be able to think about them when you see it. It serves as a reminder and bringer of happiness.
It is love, not ownership. Love is equal.
2006-12-18 11:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by toxicPoison 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ring is a symbol, and should be treated with respect. I don't think he owns you, but it does symbolize an eternal bond, and that does imply some kind of responsibility and loyalty. I would suggest you sit down with him and discuss what it means and requires.
2006-12-18 19:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mean an engagement ring, then yes. In a way you both own each other. It is a sign of indearment which shows everyone else that you are commited to each other and cannot be parted.
~Dark Aphotic
2006-12-18 19:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not exactly. She ultimately decides how to live, but the ring keeps her from (hopefully) approaching or being approached by other guys. Personally, I would rather buy my own rings and have full control over my life.
2006-12-18 20:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope. actually, when a gives a ring, he's actually asking for something. he doesn't own anybody even though he's given loads of rings. :) it's just an object to show his love but it's never going to be an object that marks a territory or possession. hope this helps. :)
2006-12-18 19:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by evi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a ring symbolizes a committed relationship between 2 people. Ownership has nothing to do with it.
2006-12-18 19:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Little_Femme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no matter what kind of ring (engagement, friendship or otherwise). You can't "own" someone by giving them jewelry. It can demonstrate a higher level of commitment, which I hope is what is meant by "owning", but it doesn't mean you can control someone in what they do, think or feel by giving him or her a ring.
2006-12-18 19:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Bookworm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's usually just a sign of appreciation/caring/love/etc. Plus she can always just take the ring off.
2006-12-18 19:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rach 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No guy can own you, no matter what he gives you. You're a human being, you can't be bought by objects or money. Any guy who thinks he owns you is just a jerk, and you shouldn't be with him.
2006-12-18 19:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he does not oen her. just cause he gave her the ring, doesn't mean she is his. by this logc, why not be the other way around?? just like a girl took the ring, she can give it back. taking a ring isn't saying "i am yours / ur slave.." it means "i love you, and will be by your side from thick to thin"
2006-12-18 19:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋