Is it normal to feel this way and people to react like this??
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2006-12-18 10:49:31 · 7 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am turned on by my g/f when she brushes against me in the pool with her bikini on. It also turns me on when she steps out of the bathroom with just a towel on. Is this normal??
I just love her gymnastics toned, surfing tanned body. Just holding her in my arms after she competes and is worried about placing is enough for me. Is it wrong to like to hold her after she competes?? I mean come on she's in a leotard. Should I not feel this way?? I love her personality too. It is perfect.
I also was there for her when she took third in state. She came up to me before and was upset cuz she thought she did bad. after she found out she came up and I kissed her and her coach got all mad at me saying that if I wasn't there she could have took first. I was there to support her. Why was he so mad??
We are both 16. Is it wrong for me to be ok with her sleeping in my arms and not expect it to lead to sex??
2006-12-18 10:50:32 · update #1
Her coach knows she does better when I am there. Is her coach mad about the "pda" aspect of it??
2006-12-18 10:53:54 · update #2
What is so wrong with showing my g/f that I care??
2006-12-18 10:56:10 · update #3
give oral
2006-12-18 10:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was angry because there's more pressure when your boyfriend is around, how would you feel about your parents showing up to watch you two make out? Probably pretty unhappy since you feel the pressure of them staring at you! And yes, it's normal, if you weren't attracted to her it would not be a very successful relationship.
Look ok, she knows you care about her, she just feels pressured to do better when you're around. It puts stress on her to know that her boyfriend might see her fail.
2006-12-18 18:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r either really confuse or u have not had a girlfriend before or in really long time or u r just trying to be funny . Keep doing what u r doing u seem to be on the right tack also yeah it OK when u r in the same bed to not to expect sex but keep protection just in case and if she finds them and think u r just trying to get in bed just tell her i only have them to be safe she should believe u and don't put them by your bed put them in your closet all the way in the back
2006-12-18 19:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by alex b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man. trust me its more than normal. heck most guys would love to be in your possition, so just hang with it she is a good i mean gooooooooooooooooood girl. and yes its alright if you get a ***** when she shows up in a towel, i mean girls are beautifull and the way you describe her of course man she is a hot girl. and you dont seem like bad person, so ye man you gotta feel golden. so ya dont worry about it.
2006-12-18 19:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by Fortew3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha yeah thats perfectly normal that you get turned on by that kind of stuff.. your only 16 ur supposed to! :P
2006-12-18 18:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's all normal. It would be scary if u didn't feel this way. Good luck!
2006-12-18 18:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally normal, that is basically what most girls want, of what I do know.
2006-12-18 18:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by nothingknower29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋