ok i like this guy who is like 25 and i am 13 but i like him and i have sence i was 8 but he is in love with this other chick and is fixing to get married and i dont know what to do i mean i am awhole lot younger than him but he is so hot and his younger brotheris like already married and i know that every one that is like my age used to like him but he got married and thay got used to it but what do i do i mean i like this other dude that is my age but i dont like him as much as i do i can probably start to like the kid my age but it will behard and i dont want to cry at his wedding and every one know that i liked him still because i used to stare at him and every one knew i liked him but it has been 5 years sence i liked him and i would feel imbarrased what do i do?
2006-12-18 10:42:17 · 23 answers · asked by Makoto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Let him go. You are too young for him. Will your father let you date older man? I doubt it. This guy may perfer older girl over you. Best to do is let him go and you will find a better replacement. Enjoy your young life first and then worry about dating and marry later after your college. One day, you will look back and be glad that you waited and found a better guy.
2006-12-18 10:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by codeworx7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 13 trust me it'll pass trust. You are too young I'm pretty sure its just a teenage love because i use to have a crush on my brothers friend and even though I'm legal now i don't like him anymore, it was a older/younger thing i was infatuated by. All you can do is keep your thoughts to yourself if you go to him and tell him this he might think its cute and just laugh at you that's not a good feeling at all i know. But your gonna like plenty of guys who might not feel the same way, I've been there write about it to get it out of your system.
2006-12-18 18:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still Young.There are plenty of fish out in the sea.This man is getting married.He only prolly considers you as a friend nothing more.Sure we all have crushes once we're younger but there is so much to look forward to other then dreaming about this ONE guy whom is getting married in a matter of time.Obviously he is happy with his relationship .All you can do is accept the proposal and move on.Dont wait around for this one guy or ruin what he has now.It may hurt but you got your whole life ahead of you.
2006-12-18 18:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not interested in you. he's getting married to the girl he loves. if you like him as you say you do, you'd leave him alone. you still have a long way to go, and just give it time for when you're around his age, in 12 years, a lot can happen and you will find the guy of your dreams and forget this guy. dont worry, you still have a long way to go.
just be happy he found someone that makes him very happy. isnt that what love is about? having the one you love happy?
2006-12-18 20:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, no offence to you but you are only 13 and this is not love. its infatuation with an older man who is so far out of your reach plus it would be highly illegal and he would end up in jail!
just start dating someone your own age and eventually you will forget all about this guy, in many years time he will be become old and fat lol and you'll be like 'what the hell was i thinking'! and you'll have some drop dead goregous bloke on your arm who is your own age.
p.s this older guy hasnt made any advances toward you has he? because thats just sick!
every 13 year old has developed crushes on older people they soon just fade away, it may seem like you are in love with him but just think about it logically, it will not work! good luck chicken.
go to his wedding look gorgeous and pull some hot guy your own age xxx
2006-12-18 18:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by mowgligurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming this is your first crush. I know it can be rough but you do know you are 13 and he's 25. I know you don't want to hear it but he is an adult and you are a kid turning into an adult. There is a difference.
You are so young and will have PLENTY of time to not only bounce back but find another "dude" to love. You will laugh at this crush years from now. Trust me.
2006-12-18 18:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by JAD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, he is too old for you. You envy the life he is going to have. It will happen to you someday too. Relax. Leave him alone you are just a kid. Anyway, you have a lot of growing up to do. Look at your question. It is full of grammatical errors and punctuation and spelling problems. Stay in school and work on this. You need to be smart to find a smart man.
2006-12-18 18:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mocoto,
it is hard to be in love with someone who is getting married to another person. He may feel something for you but it is not love at your age it may be a fondeness like you are his little sister. Marriage without love and consideration is awful. Please don't use his little brother either. It will always keep you in view of their family and will later make them become very closed to you. Just wish him the best. Let yourself get over it. Get involved with anything...and I do mean anything...and try not to look back. If it was meant to be honey, it would already be.
2006-12-18 18:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush on him , that is all.
He has found him a bride and u must move on.
Put more heart and mind into the fellar your age and if u grow up and this guy u have a crush on gets a divorce, then u may still have a chance.
Forget him right now and be happy for his happiness.
2006-12-18 18:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax you are still young.If you really think about it you are way to young for him and he will not look at you as a women at least not now. Right now you feel that no matter what you do you wont forget him ,but trust me ones you see that guy that takes your breath away you wont even remember who is the other guy. Just try not to be around him a lot and get friends that can distract you.
2006-12-18 18:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋