At the beginning of the school year i became friends with this girl who was in every one of my classes. I had a crush on her and she had a crush on me. Neither one of us wanted to ask the other out so we reamined friends. Eventually someone asked her out and she accepted. After she broke up with that guy I finally got up the courage to ask her out with a note. When i did this she began to avoid me until I explained to her that I changed my mind and I would like for us to remain friends. So she eventually got another BF and we just remained friends but then her Bf just broke up with her. It happened recently and now today she has been acting differently. I have caught her staring at me a few times tofday and she talks to me differently. She tries to make me laugh a lot more and we talk a lot more. I need help figuring out if it is worth a friendship to have a different relationship. Note:I do not know if she likes me or not just tell me what you think.
2006-12-18 10:22:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hate to say this but despite this maybe coming from me and you don't know me but still what I think is that your the last resort or runner-up boy. If you were her friend and she looks everywhere else and once she has a broken heart she comes to you, maybe its just for solace? I mean unless she has to have a guy on her arm all the freakin time? What is this world coming to? I would say not to jump to conclusions. She may need a shoulder to cry on and someone to laugh with. Then again, I could be wrong, but if you already attempted to go with her after the first breakup and you two are really good friends, you probably don't want to ruin that by assuming. Unless she blatantly tells you or flat out flirts like crazy with you, then its a no-go I'd say and I know that you want this girl as more than a friend. But you don't want to compromise. If she avoided you when you approached her with a note, what makes you think its different? You woke up today and decided today your Jet Li? But just be yourself! Good luck!
2006-12-18 10:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she start avoiding you before this, and why did you decide you wanted to be just friends with her again? That could tell you a lot about what's going on. Obviously she likes you. You're going to have to decide whether or not you have the courage to ask her out verbally this time, and not with a note. If you don't, she's certainly going to decide you're just playing games and find someone else.
2006-12-18 10:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by crom248 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow she may just be on the rebound and needs extra attention. It sounds like you are good friends and that makes for a good realationship. Give her the attention that she wants and let things develop naturally. She be starting to see that you are the guy that she has been trying to find. I hope this helps
2006-12-18 10:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by darling23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful right now...she may be wanting some distraction and you don't want to be her rebound partner. She probably wnats to fill the emptiness with a new guy. That happens alot. Maybe just tell her what I just said...I care about you as a friend and I even wish it could be more but not now. I don't want to be your fill in guy...
2006-12-18 10:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from a girls point of view i dont think it is worth it. i mean if u guys really go out she will probaby avoid u when u guys go out and stuff. If she really liked u she wouldnt avoid u and say that she likes u and stuff but i dont think she is worth the wait of the time and i am not being mean i am just answerig
2006-12-18 10:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want this girl, but how will you get her??? If you want any chance of getting her you need to get the courage and just say "If you like me we can take this to the next level. If not we'll be friends" Tell her to just say yes or no
2006-12-18 10:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by thank you come again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes and maybe she finally realized how much she cares for you and is hoping for a second chance, you shoud asked if you want to get together, to study or something, and see how see reacts.
2006-12-18 10:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i couldnt know more how you feel, except that im the girl, only in ur place. i was friends with a guy i work with, we got to b good friends, we liked eachother, n ended up dating, he broke up with me, but begged to still be friends. my advice, go for it. if she likes you. congrats, and good luck, and if something bad happens, ask if u can still b friends.
2006-12-18 10:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by *chicka_chicka_boom_boom* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a wimp and start being honest with people about what you feel.
And I think she sounds totally screwed up, find someone without issues.
2006-12-18 10:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by antijames76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋