ok i broke up with my ex girlfriend of 4 yrs... for about a month we kinda talked and she told me about yahoo answers and how cool it was...so i checked it out and came across her questions... and i found out that she was looking for older guys.... so i was sitting on this information for about a week and it was eating me up inside that my ex was already over me and trying to bang old dudes... so i let myself get seduced by an ugly chick which i regret ever doing...and then she asked me if i had been with some 1 and i didnt want to lie to her....now she completey cut me off telling me never to call her or try to see her ever again.... was i wrong in doing what i did..? and if im not wrong should i call her ?
2006-12-18 10:20:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not really wrong since you guys were broken up. but you shouldnt have done that just cuz she was looking for older guys. and she has no reason to be mad at you since she pretty much did the same thing. if she had found some older guy she wouldve done the same since she was looking for one. obviously, you still care about her and like her or else you wouldnt care that she was looking for other guys. so, i think you should call her. and explain to her that what she did was nothing better and that you didnt mean what you did.
2006-12-18 10:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by christi815 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sure
2014-04-25 04:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it was wrong to let yourself get seduced out of spite!!! Don't do things like that unless you really mean it, that way it just makes you look bad and feel worse. She is just hurt thats all. The way she probably sees it is that you broke up with her, and then 1 month later you are sleeping with another woman, or "slept" with another woman. She is hurt. Also, why would you care about what she is doing? you broke up with HER remember? I'm sorry you are going through this. I think you two obviously still have feelings for each other and the best thing to do would probably be to sit down and have a heart to heart.
2006-12-18 10:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this all done in the relationship? If not then no, nothing was done wrong. You were broken up. Anything can happen from then out. But if you were still in the relationship and all that happen then I'd say your both wrong.
If she said that recently, I would give her a few days to cool off. After my brother's girlfriend found out he had slept with another girl they didn't talk for atleast a month even though they were broken up and it was out of alcohol. She was pretty pissed off, but she took back all the mean things she said, and are back together. Give her space and then start trying to talk to her again.
2006-12-18 10:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by mtoWCS09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off,your both hurting,and right now it seems a bit of a revenge thing on both ends.When you found her on her looking already for somebody else,already on the rebound,you felt rejected so,you wanted to get back at her for already being on here and,ended up in a situation you didn't want to be in.
I will give you the only advice I know and,I am 28 and have gone down a long dateing road(done for a while,no need to bother with on line dateing,not to mention if it's going to happen,it's in God's time not mine)When you break up with somebody,sometime's it's best to make a clean break.I know when my ex and I broke up I was hurt when he started dateing again but,he's been a good friend to me...Don't call her though,you did nothing wrong,don't let it eat you up,just move on,talk to friend's as sounding boards if you need to vent....If you find yourself confronted with your ex,simply ask why is it ok for her to date again and not you??
2006-12-18 10:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by raventears56 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! No your not wrong, you a human, you readted off of your emotions, sometimes that happens, and we make mistakes by doing so. We all have skeletons, so if she is being immature and acting that way your better leaving her alone anyway, oh and, in case you did not notice what works is making the person think you dont care "she was already over me and tryin to bang older dudes" try to act like it dont matter that she dont want to talk to you, she will come back......just for that reason! LOL!
2006-12-18 10:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by nmaponte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one she didn't have any business looking for older men in the first place. Then she still love you because if she didn't she wouldn't have gotten upset about you doing the ugly duck. Dont call her and watch she call you. But you have to be strong and not call her. Dont run behind her because she will use that to her advantage.
2006-12-18 10:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by foxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a mess. Why not call your ex-girl friend? She is not your enemy. As long as your are single you may vary your choices
but once you marry it should be for keeps because you will have kids which will be affected by your actions in addition to other responsibilities.
2006-12-18 10:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u didnot do anythin wrong but what she understood is that u didnot go out with anyone coz u still think of her believe me there is nothin better than honesty and we should never regret bein honest and if other ppl doesnot accept our honesty it's thier loss..if i were u i wouldnot call her,i will just try to get over her and while u couldnot get over her at the last 4yrs am sure u can do it now coz she didnot treat u the way u deserve...try to get over her,she doesnot worth it dear
2006-12-18 10:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋