Ive been with this guy that I deeply love and we have been togeather for almost 2 years. Hes good to me but when it comes to me being upset and sometimes even breaking down and crying he dosnt care and he'll begain to make fun of me and say that I get upset too much, when I really upset beacuse of him. If he wants something and Im doing something for myself at the molment if I dont stop what Im doing for him then he yells and makes me feel bad. ANd when it seems that we have something worked out that was a problem its back to the same thing again beacuse of him, the reasion I know its not me is beacuse Ive watched it over and over gain. I dont know what todo, I'am living with this guy and I do love him but AM I seeing a red flag or are Men just like that when it comes to feelings and working things out? Its gotten to the point where I have tryed to leave or Im crying my self to sleep avery nite over the same thing. Im stressed and feel alone beacuse of this matter.
2006-12-18 10:15:51 · 4 answers · asked by Rach 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
This is a red flag!! You need to leave him, are you married? No I don't think so, Why wait around for what? He does not deserve you, leave and start a new life I know it's easier said than done but there is no way I can take you out of that man's house unless you are willing to do it on your own, go back to school, learn something you are good at, get a part time job and you can do it sweetie~ Good Luck and you will see how good you will be without this person~Stress Free~
2006-12-18 10:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by YO~NO~FUI E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry. i know exactly how you are feeling. my husband used to kind of do the same things to me, that was until one day when he realized that HE was depressed. See, he didnt understand what depression was about. He didnt realize that its not just emotions that we can turn off. It killed me to see him have to go through it, but once he did he was much more understanding of my issues. Dont let this guy treat you badly anymore.You are depressed and he is makng it worse for you. Even if the two of you just need to take a break for a little while...you need to be around people that lift you up, not put you down. Not all men are like this, and you dont deserve to be treated like this!
2006-12-18 19:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy is a jerk... or atleast has jerk-like tendencies. It's hard to give a direct answer (there's not really one in general) because I need more info like: how old are you? Why did you move in together? Can you move out? Does it seem like your stuck? I can help you, I've been in similar situations and found that just by talking to someone about it, makes you feel empowered and like your not alone. Email me at cupcake_sprinklz@yahoo.com !!!
2006-12-18 18:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound to me he childish and need to grow up. If, you been depressed long you need to see a Doctor. You don't sound happy living with him. You might need to leave before you have children's by this uncaring jerk. Hope thing work out for you.
2006-12-18 18:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by SUN FLOWER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋