me this guy have been dating for a while and when we have sex the condom breaks this happened twice the other times the condom is fine everytime this happened he will say "oh no it broke"...i did'nt know it broke..."i don't know the reproductive system to well but your probably getting pregnant right now" ...the second time it happened he said "well if it keeps breaking we might as well not use them at all."...i'm very fertile......i know for sure he's wearing the right size. what is going on with him what is he trying to say with all these comments? no rude comments please
2006-12-18 09:51:16 · 18 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bbz. i think this guy might be trying to get you pregnant. you have to think about how your relationship is with him. i the condom only breaks with him then maybe he may (this sounds really stupid) be making holes in them. this is a really tricky problem. just think about how he acts with you, other girls etc. Good Luck!
2006-12-18 09:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a kid, keep seeing this guy. If you like sneaky, conniving, liars... keep seeing him. The likelihood of breaking a condom every time is slim to none, especially if you are using a lubricated condom that is the right size. What this sounds like is that he is trying to make you think that the condoms are not effective and that you could just forget about them (implying that you will get pregnant whether you use them or not). He doesn't like wearing them, and is trying to trick you into letting him do it without them. If you are as fertile as you say, you'll be pregnant in no time. Be careful.
2006-12-18 17:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, condoms just don't break, twice at that. He most likely put a hole on it or something, maybe he wants to get you pregnant, maybe he likes you that much, or maybe he just likes the feeling better without the condom. Guyz don't like to use condoms because when they come directly inside a giri it feels a lot better. Talk to him about it and ask him exactly what is it that he wants. Maybe you can get on birth control pills or some other type of contraceptions. Just be really careful sweet heart, because having a kid is no joke. Well Take Care and Be Safe!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 17:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by hated.bymany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's most likely not putting the condom on properly....perfect condom use makes a condom about 96% effective against pregnancy....perfect use is something that only about 20% of people do....if you don't follow the proper procedure for using a condom it becomes about 89% effective....proper use includes...
(in order)
1. Checking the expiration date.
2. feeling the package for air bubbles (think of a condom like a bag of chips...if you sit on the bag...what happens...it pops...if a person stores a condom in his wallet most likely he's going to pop it......i teach about proper condom use...as a matter of face i had a kid in my class pull a condom out of his wallet on friday to show it to me....sure enough...even after only having it in his pocket for about 6 hours the package was poped) condoms are like rubber bands...when exposed to the environment they become brittle
3. opening it properly (no teeth...no sharp objects to open the package) push the condom as far away from the site you are going to tear it open so you don't pinch the condome while tearing the package open.
4. apply it properly.....there's a tip on the top of the condom...this must be pinched closed when the condom is rolled on so that there's space to collect the semen when the guy ejaculates...
5. once finished the guy must hold the shaft of his penis when he withdrawls it from the womans vagina.
6. the condom must be taken off while away from the female....it drips occasionally when it's pulled off and if it drips on the outside of your vagina it can still get you pregnant.....
2006-12-18 18:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A couple of things come to mind. One that he just doesn't want to use condoms or for some reason he wants you to get pregnant. If this is the case and you don't want to, I suggest you take the responsibility on your self and take the pill etc.
2006-12-18 17:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the condom is put on the right way then there should be no reason for it to brake ... No matter how hard the sex is... Maybe you should tell him to read the instructions first before you sleep with him... And go get check for and STD asap...
2006-12-18 17:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to get you preggers. Just talk to him and see what's up... otherwise switch to another brand of condoms.... and make sure you buy them and open them and put them on him so then you know he's not tampering with them to make you pregnant
2006-12-18 17:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Stephie*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm maybe he wants to have a baby or he wants u guys to stop using condoms
2006-12-18 17:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like he is not concerned for your welfare (i.e. becoming pregnant, etc) as much as he is for his own comfort or desire to not have to mess with the condoms. I would consider abstaining until you were on another form of birth control.
2006-12-18 17:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by livinintheword † 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...Either he wants to get you pregnant, or he doesn't want to use a condom. That's what i would think atleast...Talk to him about that.
2006-12-18 17:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by mimi_sweethart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋