Do you get it????

Question

So I have been dating this guy for some time and he seems to do this and I don't know if this is normal? We are long distance we were in med school together then he ended up somewhere and I ended up farther away I know we are both so busy and he HATES to talk on the phone but how can he go like 4-6 days without even a Hello???? I have said stuff to him about this and once I do that he appologizes and its better for a short bit but then he just goes back. Is this just poor communication skills or is it something I am doing?

Answer 1

He's just not that into you.

Answer 2

no it has nothing to do with you so do not take it personal, men find it difficult to chat, they need guidance by asking questions that are open ended ( some thing that requires more than a yes or no answer) and they will talk for ever, if you ask him how he is the answer will be fine, but if you ask him what has he been doing for the past week and he will tell you. if you talk about things rather than feelings you will get a better responce as well, I know that this is difficult , but he sounds nice and perhaps worth while pursuing

Answer 3

stop blaming yourself right now. sounds like you really care and he doesn't care as much. i and my sister have both been separated from a boyfriend because of college. We talked to our guys practically every day. it is the only way to maintain the relationship in my eyes. if you are not comfortable with your situation aka not getting what you want then i think it's time to look elsewhere.
it sounds like he's losing interest. he cares, but not that much is the impression i get.
break ups are hard so good luck.

Answer 4

this is not a relationship sounds like he just loves feeling like hes wanted move on mama not even a hello up to 6 days doesnt it make u wonder whats going on over ther?

Answer 5

this is all on him and he could just be busy else where with another woman :) :) :)

Answer 6

he is into another woman, sorry