how do i get more comfortable talking to a girl that i like?

Question

we talk on IM but i find it hard to talk to her in school??

Answer 1

Being shy is normal, and in fact pretty cute. If you have any classes with her, ask her about homework and stuff. If you're around her during lunch, talk to her about general interests; food, which teachers suck, tv & movies, etc. Use the stuff you talk about online in person with her. And remember that girls get shy, too, not just guys.
Good Luck! =)

Answer 2

Just talk to her just like you would on line. At first it might be awkward but you'll start to get comfortable. Bring up a subject when you IM her the night before.... but make it something that you can bring up in conversation the next day. You'll already have a jump start.
Don't worry adults (no matter how much they don't want to admit it) go through the same thing.

Answer 3

It's only NATURAL that talking on line is more relaxing and unihibited, you can type whatever's on your mind without the face-to-face nervousness one may get. Typed words are more thought out. Anyways just do this: When no ones around just ask how her school/classes are coming along and then say "hey let's hangout , go get some coffee/snack." You see the more you spend time and talk to her face to face both parties will start getting comfortable and know each other!

Answer 4

Hey, just try asking her on IM to meet you at school someplace, and you could talk there, or start IMing right before you have something you have to do, and then at school the next day, try apologizing for not being able to talk to last night. That should get a conversation started.

Answer 5

i suggest the fact that i just get over ure fears, by chatting on a comfortable topic. nothing wrong can happen if u talk about FOOD! also, before u talk to her, breathe in for a count of 7, hold of r7, let out for 7, then repeat 6 times, You will calm down and will steady ure nerves. Also if that helos call her and say " oh hey, i noticed that u had the same science calss with me ... don't you find dissecting frogs gross?" she'll laugh!! THATS GOOD!!!!!!

Answer 6

I heard ya. I have the same problem :( But the best thing to do is be yourself and maybe throw a few jokes in there too. Don't be too discouraged if she doesn't fully jump into conversation right away, as she might not be that type of gal and may be more shy. Good luck!

Answer 7

Just say Hi to her, and start simple conversation like school stuffs, and invite her for soda, and talk about maybe sport games, musics ect.. For all you know you two will become great friends. Have a self confidence.

Answer 8

She probably senses your shyness which alot of girls are attracted to. Start off by asking her a little about her childhood, where she grew up, childhood sweethearts. Ask about other siblings. Fav actor/actress, color, things like that should break the ice. Good luck!!!

Answer 9

im a girl myself so shold help cause i have a boyfriend. how old are you?
if in school,go up to a girl ya like.tell her.
out of school,becum friends. then bffs. and filally, bf &gf

Answer 10

try talking on the phone first.

then jot down 3 things to talk about and put it in your pocket.

then talk about those 3 things when you see her and then say see you later.

touch the card in your pocket to focus you.

good luck.