i'm trying to get over this guy who says he has feelings for me but has a girl already! what can i do to get over him!? i like him a lot but i'm not tryin to wait on him 4eva!
2006-12-18 09:41:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him alone, stop thinking about it and move on. He has someone else already, that should be your first reason why you should move on! Stop waiting, you're wasting your life in the process.
2006-12-18 09:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by JustAgrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hold your breath, that is for sure. people usually end of staying with the person who was there first. look at all the married guys, with a girl on the side, that never leave their wives. break ups are hard and people are afraid to do it. it's easier just stay in something even if it's not great.
I would definitely say try to find someone else cause the odds are against you but not impossible.
2006-12-18 17:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by jay-z8900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. Spend time away from him. Distract yourself with hobbies..reading, writing, talking and eating out with girlfriends (don't talk about him with friends, just have fun), exercising, cooking. Anything that you like to do that will get your mind off him. You don't want to be some other woman do you? I was for a bit and I felt ashamed that I put myself in that position. You are better than that. Live a good life and a good guy will come to you.
2006-12-18 17:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by R_H_P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time waits on no one so why should you??? You shouldnt wait & you shouldnt give this matter any more thought & dont give him anymore of your time, body or attention, b/c he doesnt deserve it OR you okay sweetie?! look focus on yourself, pamper yourself & enjoy aspect of being "YOU"!!!!!! Treat yourself out to your favorite restaurant,movie or just take a lil time off with friends & family or alone if you prefer & reconize your self worth a man can neither break nor make a WOMAN thats in control of her life, future,circumstances,surroundings & her happiness..Strive for happiness & dont settle for less b/c you dont have to~good luck & best wishes.....
2006-12-18 17:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do that, go on and let him go, if he really likes you a lot then he'll dump his girl for you, don't get caught into his little sweet words or he''ll just think of you as booty call, let him know your not waiting around for him.
2006-12-18 17:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lilmamasita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to other boys. Leave that sucka alone if he has a girl already. That guy is an asshole.
2006-12-18 17:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl,if he had feelings for you,he would be with you!!getting over somabody its really easy...if you do it right!!you have to put it throught your head that this guy is not worth it,he doesnt love you!so dont waste anymore time.nobody can really help you inthis you have to make your self understand that ...
2006-12-18 17:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to someone else come on the guy is messing with your head for the fact that he is talking to you but has someone already come on let him go
2006-12-18 17:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess what if he was to go out wit u he could possibly do the same thing his doing to hi current gilfriend (telling other girls he likes them) when hes wit u
2006-12-18 17:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby.
2006-12-18 17:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by hum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋