Ok. I rele like this guy and we've been friends for a long time. He told me he liked my friend and asked me if i knew if she liked him. I told him i didn't know. I did. She HATES him. Anyways he found out she doesnt like him and has suspected for a long time that ive liked him. I do. so theres like this huge triangle. me and her are friends i like him and he likes her. since he knows she doesnt like him im planning to go to his wrestling match on thursday then after hes done. tell him EVERYTHING and then tell him if he doesnt feel the same way i hope we can still be friends. (I'm 13 and he's fourteen but in the same grade if that helps) does this sound good. I just rele want to get this cleared up even if he doesnt like me. i just wanna know if this sounds good. Thanks every1!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 09:34:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait...so does he like you? If he does, or even if he doesn't, you seriously should tell him. The truth patches things up, and with each lie you say to him, you'll be more and more immersed in a prison of lies to the point where you won't be able to get out.
2006-12-18 09:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by i6am6satan6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you have planned right now is perfect. I was in this same situation a while back, and i told him and everything was alright. He told me he didn't like me at this point in time and i was okay with it... but a month or two later we went out on a date and we still are together and its been a year and a half :) Good luck
2006-12-18 17:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by marshmellow17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds....ok.
You're taking a chance with the wrestling match thing, because his emotions are going to be on a high/low depending on how he does.
In my opinion, you should choose a time when you can be isolated but not alone. Try maybe walking out together on your last class of the day.
2006-12-18 17:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by marajader2d2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that sounds really good. Honesty is the best thing and if he does not like you then hopefully he is man enough to still be your friend and you will feel better about the whole thing. I hope it all works out for the best!!!
2006-12-18 17:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good plan. Your whole problem sounds just like Shakespeare's A Midsummer Night's Dream-try reading it!
2006-12-18 17:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by laughoutloud22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Sounds like a good plan to me but go in expecting the worst just in case he don't feel the same you can't be to disappointed
2006-12-18 17:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound great im going to do the same thing wit the guy i like good luck i hope i works out with u two
2006-12-18 17:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Its not really a love triangle. But....If you like him, yea tell him, clear things up. It might mess up your friendship, but i doubt it. I guess your plan sounds right. Good luck
2006-12-18 17:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by mimi_sweethart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound great but have the talk before you go out. Honesty is the best policy I'm proud of you. God bless you
2006-12-18 17:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the best thing you can do. But realize that you will have alot more crushes through you teen years.
2006-12-18 17:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋