She told me that he meant nothing and that she was drunk. I guess you can't really call it cheating since it wasn't physical but she told him she loved him and they had phone sex. We've been together for nine months and I always thought we were serious. I love her more than anything, I don't know what to do and if she'll do it again...someone please help me.
2006-12-18 09:27:33 · 19 answers · asked by Max M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a chance for making a quick buck on the phone sex thing she must be good at it. Your brother can rate that for you ask her is she willing to help start up the business and you will manage it for her.
2006-12-18 09:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to understand why your only focused on your girlfriend, when blood is thicker than water. The person you should be looking at cross eyed is your brother! Ok your girlfriend messed up and now you have trust issues, that is a sign that maybe you should slow down emotionally because you are more into this relationship than she is. She proved that by messing with your brother of all people. Plain and simple both of them dont have your best interest at heart the saying goes "Forgive and Forget" if you can do, if you cant get past this move on youll save your self more heartache in the end.
2006-12-18 18:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by sxybggr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Max, you need to get away from this girl ASAP ! I mean it - she will hurt you really bad in the future - she has already shown you that she can not be trusted - even with your brother - Lord, your own brother - You will always wonder anytime the two of these people are together. At a family gathering, visiting his house in the future, or even - is that really my child - get away from it know my man !!!! However, is sounds like you care for her and you are already making excuses to forgive her -
I did NOT have Sex with THAT Women !!!!!!
2006-12-18 17:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her!
She's a hoe, I mean come on!! And what up with your bro, you need to shut down on that ASAP. He'll hit on all of your girlfriends if you let him. Ask him if he has that much trouble getting girls that he has to jerk off on the phone with yours? That's just wrong.
She's trouble, just ignore her, it will make her want you more if anything and your brother, tell him he risks losing you because this is unnacceptable.
Ultimately you have to forgive your bro, but never forget.
2006-12-18 17:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her *** she is with you now more cuz of your brother, that is really ****** up, don't hurt yourself over a s^&%lut, your waisting your love on a piece of trash, the reason I say this is because this happened to me with my boyfriend,and I was with him for a year : ( same reason they were drunk, but you know what your doing when your drunk, your true feelings come out and hers unfortunatley did with your brother not you. Dump her or you'll have this in your head everytime your with her.
2006-12-18 17:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lilmamasita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did it once, she's capable of doing it again. It depends on how much you trust her at this point, and how much anguish you're willing to tolerate.
You've been "together" for 9 months (whatever that means), but it's still dating: you're not married. I know you love her, but if you want to stay with her, you'll have to make your boundaries clear: "OK, so you cheated on me with my own brother and now say it means nothing, which means you don't respect me, and you don't respect my brother, either, but you won't cross THIS line...
Doesn't sound so good, does it?
2006-12-18 17:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by KD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, man...Your brother...that's a pretty serious flaw...What if next time its not just over the phone, and in your bedroom?...Know what I mean?...Do what you have to do, but I would have to dump her if it were me...or go screw around with her sister, and see how she feels...
2006-12-18 17:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find another girlfriend, her having phone sex, especially with your brother is FOUL. she is sick & twisted. You better find a better girl who won't do this to you. What if you brother fell in love with her? you will be in a fight with him all because of this girl. You don't want to be with someone who will compromise your relationship with a family member. TRUST ME. find another girl. a better one, who knows how to respect herself & respect you.
2006-12-18 17:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a sign for her destructive behavior...too many times people use being drunk as the reason for their immorality. enough is enough, if she is still a drinker, you cant trust her because she may do it again..what if next time, they are face to face...and what about your brother, why would he participate in this behavior!?
2006-12-18 17:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by huneygrl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
***** her along with your brother. Take her to the bed and do a very hard job first ask your brother to do then you again him like that tear her in the nite
2006-12-18 17:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋