We are married but she lives at her place and me at mine i want to be with her and want to let her know how much i love her but she always makes excuses that she cannot as her parents do not allow or she can meet me at a temple or else like at public places for just 5 to 10 mins now plz plz plz tell me how to convince her to meet me i am getting desp to meet her but dont whts going on with her she says she wants to but cant plz plz plz tell me and advice me wht to do ....
2006-12-18 09:26:46 · 20 answers · asked by justforu_forever6480 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as you asked the more details, i would like to tell yall that this is not the story but its an reality with me and as u asked tht how can we alone after all if we r married then let me just tell u that we have got married but her parents dont knw that and she doesn't want to disclose it untill her elder sis gets married but it is getting too long and thats why i am getting desp to meet her and be with her....
2006-12-18 09:44:50 · update #1
she's probably scared to tell her parents. I think you should go to her house, ask her parents that you would like to marry her. In front of them act as if you guys aren't married. Let her know your plan before doing that .. Stay in touch with each other through phone calls, SmS, and emails.
If that doesn't work out, basically just have some patience as patience will give you a sweet reward.
2006-12-18 10:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be married and never have met? If you live in a place that says that it is culturally ok to not live/be together, then what is the point of the marriage? Enlighten us all as to the details of why you have not met and why you would be married never having seen each other and not living together or having a relationship besides the term you put on it "gf(legal wife)? I mean, what gives?
2006-12-18 09:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i apoligize but i dont quite understand, but from my understanding u already know her right? b/c when u say u want to meet her, it makes me think the 2 of u dont really know eachother, did she marry u 2 become a citizen? b/c thats what it sounds like to me~ or did u marry her 2 become a citizen & now u want more? See u have 2 make it clear in order to get a good answer, but it also seems like perhaps the both of u are under age, plzzzzz rephrase the question so that i can gain a clearer perspective on whats going on okay sweetie??!!
2006-12-18 09:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, you must be patient. In the meantime keep yourself busy. think of it as a long distance relationship. Work and save your money so when the day does come for both of you to be together there will even more stability. Send her romantic emails, in other words make her swoon so she can feel what you feel.........eventually she won't be able to resist it and she may end up telling her parents. Btw, both of you are acting outdated. Who cares if the sister isn't married yet? You both have found each other and that's all that matters. It's your chance at happiness :)
2006-12-18 11:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by PS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off shes your wife not your girlfriend according to you so dont call her girl friend its disrespectful. second wow i cant believe this story i am so very sorry to say but this is not a marrage this is not even a relationship this is crazy if you are married and can take care of her then talk to her explain that you love her and want to have a solid matrimony with her explain to her thjat shes grown up and has to leave the nest. her parents cant tell her wat to do especially if yall r already married yall got married now act lyk a married couple.
2006-12-18 09:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, she shouldn't have to ask permission to see you from her parents.... Which I dont even understand.... Other than that Im am guessing that you want to show her you love her in a very private way... Are you sure she is not scared of that?
2006-12-18 09:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you get married if you live in 2 different places????
2006-12-18 09:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by *Sweet_Kisses* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't want to be with you. Aren't you the same guy who says all you guys do is argue? Just separate and find someone you don't argue with.
2006-12-18 09:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you frustrated when you both planed for this then you should co-operate with her . you have to spend your life with her so , dont upset your self and mislead your plans . trust her and let her also do the same .
2006-12-18 15:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋