what can i say to a man that seems to have "used" me to make him feel bad?

Question

this man liked me in 1999-we went out about 8 times. I broke it off.
he calls me back in 2003 & we go out about 5 times- we do things w/ each other and his kids, which I love. he suddenly stops calling. Now in 2006, he calls me again. Says he can't remember why we stopped dating. We date for 2 months-has me to his house & we spend time w/ his kids-they love me! BTW he is 49 , I am 46, kids are 11 & 14.Again, he just stops calling! Leaves me w/ no explanation reason or anything!! What can I say to him about not calling or explaining why he just stops all communication??? I just wouldn't expect this from a man his age. Thanks

Answer 1

Don't wonder why he stopped calling. Never let him see or hear from you again and he can wonder what happened to you.

Answer 2

reguardless of the age, this is a learned behavior and would take years if ever to change that. Its probably a wasted effort to try and make him "feel" bad. However, it is your responcibilty to let your feelings known and to put an end to it.

Answer 3

Honey, he is just hooking up when he's either lonely or it suits him. If you want to continue playing this game, it's your call.
Personally, I would tell him to hit the road. I don't believe there is anything you could say to him to make him feel bad. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings.

Answer 4

Guys are always going to be kind of immature. It's nature.

There's nothing you can really SAY to make him feel remorse. Don't answer his calls, it's just obiously not worth your time or effort.

Answer 5

Seems like he only called you when he needed some @ss!!! And the problem is????

Mr Happy

Answer 6

Nothing.
A "user" has no conscious that would feel bad.

Answer 7

Bye-bye!!!! You deserve better.

Answer 8

say his penis was too small and you could barely feel it