obviously if they still tell you they love you and everything is normal but you find urself [ as i do, being a woman] we tend to think deep into everything even if it means nothing...
so seriusly how would you `test` someone [reasonably] to get them to miss you or realise they miss, love , value you....
cos you only realise what youve lost til its gone...so can someone tell me what would a bf of 3 yrs be like if he did miss you and what would the girl need to do
2006-12-18 09:18:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Careful how you proceed...alot of "tests" can seem oh i don't know...underhanded, mistrusting, devious, malicious, calculating, hurtful and the list goes on. Keep in mind that the comment "you only realize what you have lost when its gone" doesn't come with a homing beacon, aircraft runway lights or bread crumbs. Let nature take its course, missing you cant be forced, it has to be naturally realized. Good luck.
2006-12-18 09:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by James J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The thing about guys are they really don't like to see us all day and talk to us all day and email ,etc. That can be a bit much for guy they are physical and like doing and talking about guy stuff whatever they like. To be missed you must come up missing simple as that it may be hard for you if you are a clingy type so be careful. Don' t see him for three day say you had something going on and don't call him or tell him you will not be available I know you can tell him something. Know he may get suspious and think your are doing something you have you business if you call him alot but guys will take advantage if you with out even knowing they are hurting you because they have gotten use to you. Pray about what you should say and do for your missing mission if you want to continue. You are not messing around so you have nothing to worry about. God bless you
2006-12-18 17:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate what you have and stop trying to play games. It sounds like you are insecure and need to be coddled in order to feel like you are valued.
Here's a thought. Why don't you go out of your way to really show your appreciation for him? I bet if you stopped focusing on how you could test someone and started genuinely focusing on them, you'd be surprised how much your actions would be reciprocated.
2006-12-18 17:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt need to test him, you should know deep down whether he misses you everytime you are away from each other!
if you love each other, whats the problem, theres no point playing games 3 years into your relationship!
2006-12-18 17:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about this all the time 2. Pack your scheduel, and play really really hard to get.
W/e you do, don't flirt with other guys or somethin....you don't want to make him feel jealous.
Best Wishes!
2006-12-18 17:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he missed you he'd tell you and show you by wanting you around.
You can't make anyone miss you - and if you're gone for a period of time and they don't miss you....somethings wrong!
2006-12-18 17:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If something is real there is no reason to test it with having constant doubt :) :) :)
2006-12-18 17:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to other men. I'm sure he'll get jealous and start calling you more often.
2006-12-18 17:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow..thats hard...i've been with my bf for eight months and he tells me he misses me so much every chance he gets....
2006-12-18 17:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hed tell you if he missed you, and if you saw each other youd see it in his eyes and hear it in his voice
2006-12-18 17:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by kydd 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋