So yeah. I've never had a girlfriend at 15, and I'm just a bit of a dork tbh. I wouldn't consider myself ugly
(Pics for proof www.myspace.com/nineteeneightyfourr)
I don't understand why every female I've ever met only has feelings for me platonicly.
What attitude is it that draws teenage girls in, what can I do to improve my chances?
2006-12-18 09:17:48 · 13 answers · asked by emotionallychallenged 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All girls want a confident guy who is not afraid to make a move. I don't mean confess your love or buy them flowers or anything like that. I mean you have to approach them, ask them out, maintain eye contact, and have a sense of humor without being nervous. It really all comes down to confidence and having the guts to show them you are attracted to them.
2006-12-18 09:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your discussion relates to what evolutionary biology has already discerned. If you are truly interested in this topic, I recommend you google evolutionary biology and read up. The short answer is that men are programmed to find the women that look most fit to bear their children attractive. As women in their teens look most fit, this is what men find attractive. Evolutionarily, the older a woman gets, the less attractive she becomes as a mother for a males children. The opposite is said for men. Women pursue men who are good providers. Evolutionarily, thats a woman's main interest. They want their children provided for. The best providers tend to have some age and experience, so women are not attracted to greem teenage boys. Women are attracted to older, more mature men, with some experience. With your car accident example, men would on the whole no longer find the female attractive, despite that she retained her looks. The mental incapacity will signal to the male that the female is no longer a good specimen to bear his children. Simply, its not just about looks but overall fitness.
2016-05-23 05:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 22 and I am also a huge dork, however my wife is hot. Stay dorky get good grades get a good job and once you start making 6 figures and are in the real world girls notice you. Dork in high school is rough i know man, but dork in the real world is being a success. Stay the course, be yourself and have a little confidence.
2006-12-18 09:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
15... wow, some time ago for me, but still just a memory away. What I remember is that both girls and guys were very confused, trying stuff, making bad decisions, some good...
My advice; friends many times turn into more. Not all the time, but a lot of them did for me. I am not sure what kind of high school you go to, but find girls in class that you may have some music interests with or casually ask for help or offer help to someone in need.
I know it is tough, but it gets better and easier.
Good luck.
2006-12-18 09:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Shane O'Rion 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I always have girls liking me. I guess they like the fact that a guy can be sweet and not fake or gay. I also do a lot of sports. Just be yourself. I bet if I changed, more girls would like me but by being myself, I was able to win over the heart of my wonderful girlfriend!!
2006-12-18 09:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Aric 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well teenage girls nowadays go for the older guys or the bad boys....change the way you dress and act and get a new face and a good job and a car....and a six pack...im pretty sure dat'll help you out....haha...
2006-12-18 09:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah attitude does count but some times its the bad boy attitude that gets a girl. but don't over do it. well most of the time, you have to be your self other wise they find out who you really are and acuse you of lying. i think thats better but, other girls like other things.
2006-12-18 09:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confidence, sweet, funny, and not a jerk. When you walk into a room u have to have confidence but not the "I'm all that" thing cuz that's not cute just don't look shy or anything.
2006-12-18 09:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself!!You'll find someone.But just to help you:
Snooty rich girls-Snooty Rich guys
fun loving girls-fun loving guys
Same w/ everything else....ppl who have common interests
2006-12-18 09:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by kimmi_10_53 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls like me like guys that make them feel special.. and let us have our space and not be to overbearing like at lunch as if she wants him to come hang with her and her friends. I like a guy that is cool with my friends too. but yea dont make a girl feel like your smarter than her. Talk to her really sweet and see what happens.
2006-12-18 09:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by mosas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋