2006-12-18 09:03:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is weird. You are asking US, perfect strangers, about how you should feel. Well, anyway, maybe you should be honest with her and tell her how you feel, because the reason you are asking that is because you feel insecure. And if you are feeling insecure, you really have trust issues and if she is willing to work them around for you, fine, but if not, you will just cause her much pain in the future. Don't hide your feelings! Risk it and pray that she is comprehensive.
2006-12-18 09:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by JC 301186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, as a girl, hang out with a lot of guys as well as girls. Don't worry about it, we just like to have guy friends because they're nice, reliable sources of information on how guys in general feel, and they're just as cool as girls.
If your girlfriend starts holding hands or kissing -- you might wanna throw up the red flag. If it's a hug...it has the potential of being completely harmless.
Don't sweat it :)
2006-12-18 09:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tawny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should fell cool about it. Unless, she is getting all flirty with them, then you should talk to her about it and ask her very calmly to stop flirting with them. Make sure to tell her she can still be friends with the guys. It's okay to feel a little insecure, but don't get caught up in it. Things are never as bad as they seem.
Good Luck! :-)
2006-12-18 09:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by *Kendall* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That truly depends on how secure you feel in your relationship with your gf. For me, I wouldn't like it unless I know the guys. I probably would, in a mature way, let her know that it makes me feel uncomfortable. How long have you guys been together? That has alot to do with it too...if you've been together a long time then yeah it would really bother me but if you have just started dating then it probably shouldn't bother you too much until your ready to take it to the next level.
2006-12-18 09:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how serious the relationship is, like me and my girl are looking to get married so no way is she hanging out with other boys and same goes for me, no girls aloud but thats cool with me coz girls and boys cant be good friends its in our nature, end of the day we are all animals so if we find some one attractive we want to mate with them but its called shagging.
but if its not serious let her have fun and you need to have fun to and not worry.
2006-12-18 09:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like finding a new girl sounds like she wants a new guy.
2006-12-18 09:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should let her. if you like her that much you will let her have guy friends. if you have trust for her then let her. my moms boyfriend doesnt let her becuz he's just a loser and its totally unfair. she still talks to my dad though..right in froint of her b.f.!! its funny. if she likes any of the guys.....then we have a problem. good luck on it and i wish u 2 the best!
2006-12-18 09:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by KarateKidd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell you how you should feel. You have to ask yourself how you feel. Most importantly, you have to tell her how it makes you feel. Listen to what she has to say. If it's still a problem, work together to solve it.
2006-12-18 09:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust her?
If the answer is yes then there's no problem.
If the answer is no then you either take the risk or move on.
2006-12-18 09:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by idontdokarate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋