im not the one doing this btw!
theres this guy- nathan- and this girl- lezlie- and me. i like him, and im pretty sure he likes me (pretty sure! not positive), but EVERYONE knows lezlie likes him, too (maybe except him if he's that thick). she like rests her head on his shoulder and plays with his shirt and writes stuff on him... its so sickening! but bak to the question...
2006-12-18 09:00:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OOO read this!!
when she was writing on his shoulder (and she honestly isnt all that pretty, no bust for the guys) he was like what are you doin?? like annoyed, so...
they were getting along fine like talking a little before that, then he kinda stopped talking to her
2006-12-18 09:03:27 · update #1
It kinda matters. (1) if we like the girl then we don't mind it as long as (2) she doesn't over-do it.
We don't like it if she is all over us in a groping way and we know we can do WHATEVER we want w/ her. Some guys might like that for the night but will never take her serious...plus guys only like that at parties and places like that.
Be yourself cause that is what pays off the most. If the other girl is being all over him then you might want to be a little aggressive but don't do what she is doing. She'll most likely get on his nerves...if she hasn't already.
2006-12-18 09:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jose M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys like this kind of attention. There isn't much you are going to be able to do about it. Keep being yourself. If he really likes you more, all that nonsense that Leslie is doing will have little to no effect. If he chooses you and she still does this, you should have the conversation with Nathan that you consider the behavior to be inappropriate and that you want him to put a stop to it before you do. Of course you should only say this to him if you guys end up in a relationship together. Otherwise it's none of your business.
2006-12-18 17:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by CPT Jack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see this at school ALL the time. The guys just stand there while the girls practically drool over them!
It SICKENS me! Girls like that show they're too easy! If you know what I mean...
I say NEVER do that! Even if the guys you like always go for the flirting girls, it's mostly because they choose them because it's easy to get laid.
If you want a guy who cares about YOU and not for your body, then don't do that. Even if you're a teen, just don't. It's gross.
2006-12-18 17:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but only the ones who've learned the conciquences will turn that type of girl away. Here is an example, kids LOVE candy, so even though they would be happy if you gave them a tone of it, you'd be setting them up for some SUPER stomach aches! You know the saying "you can't get too much of a good thing"? Well, that's just not true!
2006-12-18 17:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll probably go for lezlie because she is making an effort and showing interest, instead of waiting around being a hater like you. if you want something, you gotta go get it, grasshopper. good luck
2006-12-18 17:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well most the time they dont but if they are that disguisting as this girl is acting then yes they like it. depends on the boy i guess. see how he acts when she does it. if he is happy abput it then u try it. if not then dont try it and try to get her away from him. trust me...i've been through tons of boys.......even though i'm only in middle skool. trust me. friends take my boy advice and use it all the time.they say its great and i shoulf start a website on advice...maybe i should. anyeay....IF he a slob....(no offense) then he likes it.
2006-12-18 17:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by KarateKidd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i'm not a guy but experience tells me that majority of guys would say no - exception to that would be - guys who need that kind of ego boost ( no self esteem) - etc. It depends on how severe it is i guess. flirting is one thing but being clingy is a major turn off for everybody
2006-12-18 17:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by bbq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gernerally, no, but there are guys who don't get enough action and love the attention the girl is giving to the guy. I wouldn't do that, it's kind of disrespecting yourself.
2006-12-18 17:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say that it all depends on what type of guy he is and what he is looking for. if he does like all the slutty things like when chicks throw themselves at them then he's a loser and she's a slut. if he does like this type or behavior then he's not for you find someone better. most guys do like this kind of behavior they find it hot but i find it sickening just like you do.
2006-12-18 17:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, if its in a passionate or playful,flirty way, yes...but if its in a trashy, slutty way that makes the guy wonder if the girl would be the same way with his best friend, then no...
2006-12-18 17:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋