i havent talked o my bf in like 4 months should i still consider us as going out? i really liked him and i know he liked me too.... but we lost contact during the summer and now i dont talk to him anymore what should i do????
2006-12-18 08:50:48 · 7 answers · asked by dezire m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No... you shouldn't still consider yourselves going out. You should call him though; I'm sure he's appreciate it.
2006-12-18 08:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She rather desires to experience needed. Odds are in case you have been to start relationship somebody else, she'd be on the doorstep begging to have you ever returned, after which once you provide in, she'll unfastened activity and connect with yet another, after which shop doing this until you have her out of your existence thoroughly. that's an quite egocentric and hurtful concern of her to do to you. that is because of the fact of her very own lack of self belief and could desire to experience needed that she keeps calling, it is not probable approximately love. unquestionably, i could pass and have a date with somebody, whether that is only informal, no longer probable to get entangled, only enjoyable. while she calls tell her you have a date, and spot what she says! I even have by no skill remained acquaintances with any exes, and unquestionably even once you have over them while i discover out they have a female chum or have moved on, there is only that little tinge of jealously in me. It lasts a 2d, whether that is nevertheless there! lol. that is that voice in surprisingly much each females's head that pronounces, "NO, he could be depressing and pine away for ME for something of his existence!!!!" it could in all likelihood be ultimate to inform her you won't be in a position to proceed to be acquaintances. no longer asserting there is something incorrect with a letter or email each now after which to declare hi there i'm doing nicely, etc. etc. etc. yet, calling on a wide-unfold foundation, and speaking approximately different relationships like that is not any huge deal is very awkward.
2016-12-18 15:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by starich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you havn't talked in that long, I would say maybe its over. But if you stil like him and he likes you then reach out and talk to him, what is the worst that can happen at this point.
2006-12-18 08:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie but if its beent that long, he's long gone and you should forget about him. I have been there, an ex of mine used to do that to me. If I called him, he would hang up on me and wouldnt talk to me. He hasnt called you at all? Have you tried calling him?
take care.
2006-12-18 09:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First how do you not talk to your boyfriend
Second of all if ya'll dont talk than what he is thinking is that you and him are all ready over.
Third of all why dont you and him talk for what kind of relationship is that.
2006-12-18 09:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its over sorry
2006-12-18 08:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Antonio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's time to get a new man :) :) :)
2006-12-18 08:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋