What is "responsible love"?

Question

a guy friend says if he meets "the one" right now, it wouldn't work out because he needs to learn about responsible love while he is single.

how does a guy learn to be responsible if he is free to roam around??

Answer 1

something you do when you are a good boy ...you dont cheat, don't flirt with other girls....don't stare at other girl's boobs or ***, pick up your girl's phone calls, respect your girl and love her...

Answer 2

i tihnk it is waiting till having sexual intercourse bcuz maybe in his past he had an experience wit a girl and got him in trouble
the fact that he wants ot clean up his act says sometihng bout him,he's a good guy trying ot d othe right thing,good luck

Answer 3

i assume....maybe being committed to just one girl....hes probably having fun messing around and knows he can't settle down....

Answer 4

LOVE"


The Source

Love ignites the heart, energizes the emotions, resurrects the soul and nourishes the spirit. Love is the light that pierces the darkness, that fills the emptiness. Love infuses. Love permeates. Love enfolds. Love finds itself
in itself.

Creativity

Love opens the imagination and liberates the spirit. It is fresh, joyful, spirited, and creates all things anew. Love sharpens the perceptions and delights in creativity.

Integrity

Love matters. It is the embodiment of value: enriching, self-generating, all encompassing. Love is freely chosen. Free will authenticates love.

Honor

Love's character is heroic. Its demeanor is humble, gracious and selfless. Its nature is tender, kind and gentle. Its manner is pure, noble and faithful. Love withstands doom, overcomes grief, outlasts anguish, harbors no ill will and is self-sustaining.

Vitality

Love restores vitality. It mends. It heals. It cures. Love endures pain, sanctifies suffering and sweetens sorrow.

Faith

Love trusts. It is hopeful. It is truthful. Love perseveres by embracing patience and understanding. Love begets wisdom and wisdom begets love.

Surrender

Love praises. Love affirms. Love gives of itself. Love lets go. Love relinquishes. Love surrenders.

Compassion

Love is the great comforter. In its yearning love loves one another. In its demonstration love encourages another. In confusion love clarifies. In despair love brings hope. ndation of contentment, and the backbone of serenity.

Strength

Love strengthens, love builds, love sustains. It protects, it guards, it is fearless. Unafraid, powerful, strong, stable and unwavering is love. Love is active and dynamic, generating power upon power through action. Love is forever trustable by being predictable, consistent and always available. Love is the bringer of order. Love rights all wrongs.

Maturity

Love is mature and responsible. Love is considerate. Love is thorough. Love is complete. Love is capable of selflessness in duty, championing a just cause, dedicating itself to a higher purpose.

Dignity
Love ennobles, redeems, forgives, and purifies. It embodies peace, shows mercy and establishes unity. Love never fails.

The All in All

Love is the song of eternity within the spirit of the moment. Love is above all, and above all is love.
The statistics are cited so often, for some it seems like pure rhetoric.
One child in four lives with a single parent. More than half of all marriages end in divorce.

Divorce has contributed to the moral decline of a nation.

In an era of no-fault divorces, it's so easy for marriages to end just as soon as troubles begin. Sometimes, divorce proceedings can last longer than the marriage. There's no question that "quicky divorces" have helped many people jump too quickly into what was once considered a blessed union of two souls.

And in a time when accountability is a buzzword in politics, parenting and other aspects of life, one state representative hopes to bring this principle back to divorce proceedings.

Rep. Stephen Wise is proposing an end to Florida's 1971 no-fault divorce law, which allows a marriage that is "irretrievably broken" to be dissolved, even if one spouse doesn't want it to happen or if there are young children.

Wise's intentions are admirable, but probably will fail. Lawmakers in 20 states have tried to end no-fault divorces, and it has not succeeded in one state. The only groups supporting an end to no-fault divorces are religious groups such as the Christian Coalition.

It is another part of the proposed legislation that could help most young couples. Wise supports a premarital course for couples applying for their first marriage license, and a 12- hour course on the consequences of divorce for couples attempting to end their marriage.

Rather than force couples to point fingers and accuse spouses of adultery, alcoholism or a host of other abuses that might come from the passage of the first half of Wise's bill, the second half seems like it would do more good.

For the first time in years, divorce rates are declining - perhaps educating young couples, instead of making them point fingers later, would help that decline even more. It certainly can't hurt the statistics.

But bringing the nation back to a hostile, "Kramer vs. Kramer" type of atmosphere won't help. Ending no-fault divorce certainly won't help the children of broken homes who must watch their parents point fingers and exchange harsh words in a courtroom during divorce proceedings.

Morality isn't something that can be legislated, and prohibiting no-fault divorces doesn't seem like the cure to America's social ills.

Yet helping two people make an informed decision rather than an irrational choice could keep more people out of the judge's chambers - the intention of Wise and other legislators like him who want to see divorce statistics decrease.

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It is possible to affirm a belief in God and, with the same breath, confess that we cannot define God, for the Ground of our Being is, finally, a mystery. If this were not true, God would not be God. The problem of defining God is resolved in the belief that God is Love. Life is so structured that love is essential to our health and wholeness, from infancy to death, and there does seem to be a force in Creation prompting healthy individuals to work to structure a just society and to recognize that each of us has obligations that transcend family, time and geography. In summary, there is overwhelming evidence that love is the law of life.

The Role of Jesus

A Religious Realist is indebted to Jesus as a teacher of the ethic of love. In his life and teachings and the teachings of the Old Testament prophets we find a realistic portrayal of love as the law of life without sentimental or romantic distortion. The crucifixion stands as a symbol in history of our personal and societal tendency to ignore and even crucify our prophets, and it teaches us that love demands more than a calculating prudence. The myth of the resurrection is an eternal reminder that truth, love and justice often find life and strength in even the darkest times

Answer 5

give eachother love

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