My friend Brittani has been going out with this guy William off and on now but the last time they broke up it was final, because he only liked her as a friend. But Brittani still likes him so i asked him if he would go out with her but he said no. So my friend Mike went up to William and asked me out for him but i wasn't serious at first but now i really like him and he likes me but he just thinks it's a big joke and i'm trying to get revenge on him for braking up with my friend how do I tell William that I really like him and want to go out with him? Help I'm seeing him tonight at a basketball game I'm cheering for him!
2006-12-18 08:14:51 · 21 answers · asked by *{I'm~your~Girl!}* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you think you want to let this cool off a bit first and get things straight with Brittani? He's not moving to Mars. You don't have to act on your feelings TONIGHT. Get the clear okay from B. to be interested in him without causing a rift. If she knows you didn't mean to feel this way, and that he only thinks of her as a friend, she might be okay with it. Then tell him straight up, "I do like you, and I've already talked to Brittani about it, so she isn't going to hate me or you for it."
On the other hand, if B. has a bad reaction, you have to decide if you want to get a bad rep. with your girlfriends for taking a man that they think is still fair game to them. A rep. like this will last and last, and your relationship with the guy won't, so think long and hard before you decide.
2006-12-18 08:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rvn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all how does your friend feel about this. If she's fine with it I would go for it . but I will also take under consideration that I am going with one of my friend's ex's and if she really didn't care about him she wouldn't be mad. This kind of situation can really mess up a friendship. I know this from experience. The final thing I'm going to say is do what's best for you and forget everyone else.
2006-12-18 08:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Between Times 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of yourself now...I mean emotionally, educationally, physically....the whole ball of wax. Then kiddo look at this kid and think 'what what it be like to have a kid with this kid? Would he stay with me? Would I wish to stay with him? As a taxpayer, it boils down to that for me; so if I can scare just one of u teenyboppers at a time, then its a penny saved for congress to waste on some other pork.
2006-12-18 08:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by donewithyahooanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never date someone your friend dated. My friends and I had a saying. "Friends are forever, boyfriends aren't. Do you really want to ruin a friendship over a guy?
2006-12-18 08:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by littleredd1003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confusion. Anyways, list your priorities. Does your friend or this guy come first? Just think about it. The choice is yours.
2006-12-18 08:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa Zondervan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T!
If Brittani is a good friend, she is more important than any stupid guy
2006-12-18 08:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by indifferent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel and do whats right tell him u like him and see where yell end up if it dont work out it wasnt ment to be!!!!!!
2006-12-18 09:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by ashontelyrics 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of an unwritten rule that you stay away from your friend's exes. I don't care how "over" they are. Be mature and let it go.
2006-12-18 08:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by jframeisu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a bullet proof vest.
2006-12-18 08:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can I jus say that I hope your ready to ossibly lose the friendship u have with ur friend over this guy.. cause thats likely wat will happen, if u really like him jus tell him. tell him he's goin to have to trust you and if he really cares about you he will try his best to do so.
2006-12-18 08:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋