I'm 18 not really in a relationship more like a friends with benefits thing. I know he's safe and were moving pretty fast. Should I go all the way.
P.S. I'm a virgin
2006-12-18 08:08:47 · 12 answers · asked by Crystal Blue 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is just a friend with benefits I would wait to have sex for the first time with someone that you really care about. That might not matter to you right now but later on when you find right guy you will wish that you would have saved it for him. Trust me I made the wrong choice and now I wish I would have waited a little longer. Because now I'm getting married to a guy that I want to spend the rest of my life with. But instead I lost my virginity to a low life loser. And once it's gone there's no getting it back. Your 18 you've waited this long. What's the hurry. Just think about it. Good Luck
2006-12-18 08:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you find that special someone. That will be even better then. Don't do it. Just wait a little longer. I'm sure you are a beautiful woman that can be more than just benefits to someone. I'm sure you have more to offer than that. If you love and respect yourself as person then don't do it. Just wait you will find someone that will respect you more because you waited. You wil find that person that will love you for you and not just the benefits. If just don't care and want to get it over with then knock you socks off.
2006-12-18 16:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by sadtiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how comfortable you are when the atmosphere is right, when he thinks that the time is right. Also, it depends on how you view this...Whether you would rather spend it with someone you really love, or to just get it done and over with. If at any point you feel uncomfortable, then tell him to back off, he should understand(if he really is "safe"). And since you're thinking about this, it wouldn't be a bad idea to start keeping at least one condom in your purse. Never rely on the guy to bring one.
2006-12-18 16:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Vaynthe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say to kinda wait until you're totally sure this is what you want to do. wait to see if you're comfortable with any of this. think things through before you do anything that can change your life forever. its up to you to make the right choice. i would go with no or to wait more until you're totally secure in what you want to do. remember a lot of guys may seem like there safe but in the long run they can end up using you and hurting you real bad so think things through before making any rash decisions. good luck.
2006-12-18 16:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, 18 is way too old to still be a virgin go for it you'll need the practice.
2006-12-18 16:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you if you've saved yourself this long? Wait for the love of your life. Don't rush. You'll be left feeling sad and empty.
2006-12-18 16:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you werent planning this whole time to be a virgin for your wedding night, then GO FOR IT!
2006-12-18 16:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a damn lie...How can you be friends with benefits if you're a virgin?
2006-12-18 16:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go for it!!! Save yourself for you husband!! Your wedding night!!!! Make that night special!!!
You're still a virgin, like me, stop yourself before it is too late!! Please don't do it!!!
2006-12-18 16:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by Hockey Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it feels right go for it
2006-12-18 16:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋