confused & feeling heart broken?

Question

so my lady calls me up wanting to go out to dinner. i said ok that's cool even though we are both tired. anyways, 30 mins later i get home getting ready to leave & she calls me saying that her cousin needs a ride home from his friends' house. now why is she calling me telling me this if her intentions wasnt to pick him up afterwards? this has happened before with her calling and saying he needs this or someone needs that, & i am the understanding one telling her to go take care of what she needs. this is the same girl who 3 wks. ago i asked her to marry me, no answer yet. this is the same girl that blamed me for going to florida for a vacation, & that is the reason for her failing her mid-term, and then couldnt pass her final with a strong enough grade to go on. to make matters worse, i am the one staying up til 5am so i can see her for a few hrs when she is done with work once in a while. i am crazy for putting up with this, should i count my losses & move on? why i am treated like #2

Answer 1

Do you love her? Do you feel that she loves you? Those are the questions you need to ask yourself, you have to also know your worth. Do you feel you are worth love that you don't have to question? Don't you know that there is someone out there who will love you and treat you the way you feel you should be loved? Do not settle for anything, be patient and wait and find someone who you can honestly say loves you the way you feel you are deserving of.

Answer 2

Hmm.. wow, she hasn't provided you an answer to getting married yet.. that's not a good sign. Most women, who know they are deeply in love with their guys, wouldn't hesitate. Marriage is a huge deal to them.

Now, you feel like you're being used as a free chauffeur for her relatives. How long have you been going steady? I would probably speak with her and state you want some time apart for awhile.. during that time, you and her are free to date whomever.
She just can't call you or anything during this window span, nor can you.

If you start immediately feeling better about life without her around, you may then want to give her a final last call (or text message..haha..j/k) and let her know it's over.

Answer 3

If she walks throughout you recognize, the probability is at the same time as your married that's going to easily be worse. As difficult by way of the indisputable fact that is to stroll faraway from any courting good or undesirable, I recommend you're taking a step decrease back, enable her come to you and allow her positioned a at the same time as into the courting like you've , if she fails then count number your losses, so that you may say you gave her a straightforward probability. both partiues ought to furnish one hundred ten% for a courting can artwork, even on your undesirable days.

Answer 4

It all depends on you and what you want. If she makes you feel like two but you want to be one then she is not the one. If you do not mind being two then.........well you know.