me and my ex have been 2gether 4yrs. We were both 16 when we started. We never fought but out of nowhere 2 mouths ago she broke up with me. Since that time we both been on a roller coster ride from hell. She comes back she loves me next week we're just friends. Then after a wk of not talking she calls agian asking 4 help. I go and we for that day get back 2gether. last monday she does it agian and wants to be just friends. I see her last night and we talk and we seem like friends. I called her today and we talked. I asked her want she wanted and she just wants to be friends, she says she nolonger loves like she use too and she sometimes has the mixed feeling but she thinks she is over it. I told her i still love and i want to marry her. I would still take her back. Now we agreed to not see or talk to each other 4 a long time. I guess for me to get over her. I still feel it why do i still love her? I dunno what to do. I dont want to move on. but i guess i have no choice.
2006-12-18 07:45:31 · 9 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we keep going back and forth. It really hurts me to going throught this. i am about ready to give up on love. I am not mad at her but this crap is cause nothing but pain for me. She know how i feel .
2006-12-18 07:47:30 · update #1
True love is more than just feelings. It is also made up of many actions and experiences. It takes mutual effort by both partners to grow and maintain it.
How you feel is a choice you make. It may be hard, but you have to allow yourself to feel differently. Often times, feelings for an ex are based more on habit than real desire. Many of us let ourselves get stuck in nostalgia when we should really just move on.
You are both EXTREMELY young and still in the early stages of learning who you are as individuals. What you want, both in love and in life, will change many times as you grow up. You'll most likely fall in love more than once, too. Always stay true to your heart and mind, and when the time and partner is right, you'll know it. Good luck!
2006-12-18 07:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sweetheart u dont have a choice..no contact is best because being friends you wont ever get over her and she will continue to keep going back and forth. time will heal the pain or at least u will learn to live with the pain..hope this helps
2006-12-18 07:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... i know how you feel altho i wasnt the one having my emotions played with it hurt me. My friend went out with this guy,dumped him 4 another guy,then when he was over her she went crawling back,he took her back, then she dumped him...its been goin on like that for like 5 months. She wants him when she cant have him and then doesnt want him when she can have him. Girls like that are bitchs so i would tell her to back off...and do your best to get over her. i hate girls like that,they make me sick. So next time she comes crawling back...IGNORE HER! good luck...
2006-12-18 07:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by sk8erkat1210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some females do exactly not choose their ex's yet they don't choose all of us else to have them both. I were interior the same difficulty as you some circumstances, do exactly not enable them think of their getting to you. they offer up finally. good success x
2016-11-30 22:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by cottom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still love her cuz youve been with her for 4 years and that a long time its gonna take you a long a$$ time to get over her but you will get over her all you gotta do is stay the hell away from her meet new people and get her off your mind and sooner than you know ityou will love a girl that know wat she wants
2006-12-18 07:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by SexyMami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up the pieces, one by one, as slow as you need to, and move on. Don't let her continue to toy with your emotions like this. If she cared for you, she'd let you heal. A scab can not heal if you continue to pick and pick and pick at it. Have some respect for yourself. Move on.
2006-12-18 07:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on..
sounds too complicated for this age... trust me, love exhists and can build great relationships. relationships take work..but this, my friend, this is drama..
2006-12-18 07:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes you still but doesnt want a relationship. shes just screwing arould with your heart now. i think you should move on!
2006-12-18 07:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is not good for you
Is she getting back together with you because she gets help or money fom you, then thats why
2006-12-18 07:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋