2006-12-18 05:56:09 · 11 answers · asked by Briddy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
no, I'm not that retarded. I married him.
2006-12-18 05:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's an interesting question, but in reality I think it's probably more a case of looking at the past through rose-colored glasses.
You're probably depressed at being alone, and so you've worked up this idea that this person was your soul mate or something. There are probably details you're ignoring which is making this more difficult on you than you deserve.
People will always tell you there are other fish in the sea, and when it comes down to it... there are. Unfortunately all those other fish, even the ones you potentially could love just as much as the one you "let slip through your fingers" are going to be at a disadvantage, because they'll always be compared to the distorted memory you have of the one that got away.
Time will heal this if you let it... try to socialize with other people and get on with your life. Wish the other person the best, and then let them go. If things were meant to be you'll wind up together again, if they were not then it is best this way -- for both of you.
2006-12-18 06:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. You can always look back and regret your decisions. I let a guy slip thru my fingers and married on the rebound. I married the wrong guy. 20 years later I found out he still loves me, but he is there with his wife and I am here with #2. The best thing to do is to move on and make the right decisions in the future. You can't live in the past.
2006-12-18 06:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by northville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
I was in love with this guy, and when I had the chance to step to him. His Ex- girlfriend step in between us and for a mintue I thought that he was going to go back to her, but he choose me. And when it was my turn to make a move I walked away because I thought he should have someone better than me. My advise to you was that I was wrong, and Know all i can do is think about the what (IF). Meaning what if i did step to him would we still be together. Do no beat yourself up over it, but if you get another chance do not let him slip away. Go after what you want and didn't be like the rest of us that are scared to say how we feel.
good for it
2006-12-18 06:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by Callie B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ma dangerously close to doing that now. I am in love with my best friend. We have known one another for years, yet have only become really close in the past 9 months. We both often comment about how astounding it is that we have become such fast friends in such a short time. The reason we have't become more is that be have both had bad experiences in past relationships. Mine more recent than his. Unlike him, I am willing to take another chance with someone. I am trying to be patient because I know that he is a really great guy. But there are also other women who are interested in him as well. So I can't be too patient.
I finally made the decision to tell him how I feel before the end of this year. Hopefully, it won't make things awkward, but it is a chance I am willing to take. Regardless, I am fairly certain that revealing my feelings won't hurt our friendship, if he doesn't feel the same way.
2006-12-18 06:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Meesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you literally let someone you love slip between your fingers, like a child since its in the toddler and preschooler category? Or did you put this in the wrong category? :)
2006-12-18 05:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by PenguinsWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I have...
And I regretted it so much, because now that he is gone, I have no clue how to get him back.
I hate that we take for granted what we have while it is there.
I do not think that I will ever forgive myself for all the things I have missed out on in life because I didn't take the time to appreciate these things and nurture them.
We cannot gain back easily what we already have lost. Or is it that we never had it in the first place?
2006-12-18 05:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by iLoveHugs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have only really loved one woman in my life. She was my soulmate, you could tell. I love to play the guitar and she once told me that if I bought one more guitar that she was leaving me. I ended up getting a really nice Fender Strat. I think about her once in a while. I should write a song about this. Thanks for a great question.
2006-12-18 06:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by BudLt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, but I found someone better for me and I am glad that I let the other one go.
2006-12-18 06:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have but you can try to run after them or just wait for another person but i would run after that person because they are your love life just try to do what you have to do.
2006-12-18 06:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by noack_crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I sunk my claws in him, now we are married!!
2006-12-18 05:58:30 · answer #11 · answered by PegBundyWannabe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋