I am turned on by my g/f when she brushes against me in the pool with her bikini on. It also turns me on when she steps out of the bathroom with just a towel on. I am so happy when she falls asleep in my arms, it just feels so right. Is this normal or weird?? What turns you on??
I just love her gymnastics toned, surfing tanned body. Just holding her in my arms after she competes and is worried about placing is enough for me. Is it wrong to like to hold her after she competes?? I mean come on she's in a leotard. Should I not feel this way?? I love her personality too. It is perfect.
Parents, If you were at the meet, would you be mad that I was holding her?? Her coach gets mad b/c he says it is bad for her. Would you ever let your daughter do any of this??
2006-12-18 05:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Why did her coach get all mad at me for holding her while she was worried and kissing her when she found out she took third in state?? He was like if you weren't here she would have took first.
What's so wrong??
2006-12-18 05:44:24 · update #1
We are both 16
2006-12-18 05:50:36 · update #2
i wouldnt.
it dont look good!
2006-12-18 05:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being there and being supportive is good. Maybe the coach thinks you are a distraction to her during a time when she needs to be focusing on what she is doing. Show her respect and let her shine-- she'll do better and you two can hug later. She may feel pressure from you and may be afraid to tell you because she does care for you. Give her encouraging words and be there but don't embarrass her. I once was in a similar situation and didn't know how to tell my boyfriend- it cost me Captain of my dance team. Be patient you will have your time after the meet. For some reason parents do freak out over their 16 year old being hugged on in front of everyone because of her reputation. Nothing wrong with affection but there is a time and place for everything.
2006-12-18 14:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by holliemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your in love. I guess as a parent I would consider my child's age wheather or not she could be lovey dovey. But from the questions its like you two are older. If you guys are older and know whats right and wrong I don't see anything wrong with it. I have a son of my own and thank God he is just 6 months old. I however think you should save sex for marriage but not only because it is the right thing to do religiously, but sex is something that too many young people take advantage of these days. I had premarital sex and I have wished so many times I would have saved myself for my husband. Your virginity is something you can never get back. Also, I don't see anything wrong with being with someone holding each other is just a sign of affection.
2006-12-18 13:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think it's weird to want to be close to the girl you like? How old are you? Unless you are some old guy rubbing up on a young girl, I can't see the problem. We all get turned on by the one we love.
2006-12-18 13:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's your girlfriend, right? Who cares if you hold her. Do it until she asks you not to.
2006-12-18 13:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋