im a 17 year old senior in high school. and i have never had a bf . its not that i dont get boys trying to talk to me its just that i was always focused on my grades and sports dont get it twisted now im beautiul im a gurl worth waitng for i just want to know.
2006-12-18 05:35:51 · 8 answers · asked by butsheaintme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My belief is to wait for marriage, this is not for everyone, however, it is my choice. This is not only because of my religion but because I see virginity as a gift that can be given to a husband during your marriage. Just because you are a senior and haven't 'lost' it does not mean that you have to. Maybe for you, it is finding the right guy and not just anyone. If marriage is not your thing, for me it is also a safe environment where if an unplanned pregnancy occurred than I would be ready to bring the child into the world, but then maybe you should at least wait for yourself to be in a safe environment where if any 'accidents' occurred then you too could be safe. Remember to have protection, this is something you're probably tired of hearing but it is important because 'the one' may not always be as faithful as you. be careful and don't rush into any situation that you can't get out of.
2006-12-18 05:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There never is a "right time" to lose your virginity. As far as I am concerned, you should hold on to that for as long as you can. Your virginity is a rare and precious thing that most girls these days take for granted. If I could take mine back, I know I would b/c maybe if I had waited on having sex until I met the right person, I might be able to have kids. See, I am only 27 yrs old and cannot have kids. It's not b/c of any STDs, but I feel deep in my heart that if I would have waited, I could have kids. Honey, don't take your virginity for granted. Think long and hard before you give it up.
2006-12-18 05:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by passionate_play270 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I was the same way in high school. i spent most of my time on grades and after school activities that I really didn't have time for boys. Even if you had/have a boyfriend there's no guarantee you'll do anything with him. I think the right time is when you feel 100% ready for it, with someone you love and who loves you. You can't really tell everyone to wait until their married because sometimes stuff happens;whether on purpose or by accident. I think the best way to go about it is to wait for someone who will wait until you're ready and i mean months of waiting. I'm in college now and I still a virgin and I'm cool with it. I don't think I need to give myself up to just anyone.
2006-12-18 05:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well chick, personally I feel like you said should wait because your body is your temple, and you should not give that to any man until you fine the right man who loves you for you... who is your best friend, when are down he there to offer a shoulder to cry on... I am 25 and I had my daughter when I was 17, trust me it is not the way to go... I could had did so much more with my life.. so girl hold sacred the thing most vauled in life, you should know when the time is right.. remeber it is not about lust but about love.. and when the time is right remember to wrap it up - to prevent pregnancy and std.... know your partner
2006-12-18 05:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by bossychick6969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on your grades girl. The right time is when you believe it's the right time. Don't let anybody pressure you in something you do not feel ready to do. The time will come when you are ready and only you will know that time. And when that time comes be safe no glove, no love.
Good luck with your studies and happy holidays!
2006-12-18 06:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When ever you want. And it will be good (not the first few times but after that). But if you want it to be the best it can be wait till marriage. You only get to have one first, you can ether blow it and give it so some guy who you will always remember or give it to the guy that will matter for the res of your life. The choice is yours.
2006-12-18 05:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is time when you do not need to ask the question
2006-12-18 05:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ummm, WHEN YOU'RE MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 05:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by Valencianista 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋