I have a boyfriend but he is always getting money not spending time with me.What do I do?

Answer 1

You should just open up and explain to him that money doesn't matter to you and that you would much rather be spending time with him.

Are you giving him the money or is he working all the time? I don't think some people know what you mean!!!

Answer 2

A guy who is after money isn't always the best kind, but in a relationship both parties need to negotiate and work on spending time. I suggest keeping busy and expect his schedule to be off. If it is a big problem confront him and if it doesn't get fixed the money would be more important to him and get out. However if he will compermise and work toward the relationship and you work towards knowing somethings are important then you can work it out.

Money breaks up 75% of marriages in this society and realtionship probally the same. To prevent this is to address your feelings now not latter on the subject.
I wish you luck in your prusuit of happiness.

Answer 3

Break up with him. You should find someone that tries to put your relationship first. If he cared enough about you he would give you at least some of his time after all that is how he became your boy friend in the first place correct. If you are not getting his time then somebody is as well as his money.So be strong and find out where you really stand.

Answer 4

it would help if we knew what he did for the money. but anyway, you should be grateful you have a boyfriend that is willing to work for a living. there are too many people out there who live off there parents or are just too lazy to get a job. set up dates to spend time with him. plan these things out. and be there waiting for him after a hard days work, because more than likely, most of that money is going to be spent for you. if he truely is a hard worker, guys like that are hard to come around these days, so he's a keeper if he works hard for his money.

Answer 5

i belieave you should break it off.In the bible it states that love is patient,love is kind,love will not let a soul perish.I mean i have a testimony where my ex had done the same thing.It is really like the term m.o.b money over b...well in other words sometimes boys will take oney more seridly then girls.It just their principle.In this case i wouldnt waste time with a relationship with someone behaving in that way.In the bible it doesnt rally talk about having relationships in the first place.However it talks about marriages.this is the key whoever finds a wife sees a good thing whoever finds a girlfriend sees a whoremonger.Dont waste your time in that atmospher and let god put the right one in your life.It seems to me your stressing over it and that shouldnt be the case.

Answer 6

You sound like you're high maintenance, so he has to be "always getting money". If he spends time with you, then he's more likely spending money, not getting money.
Sometimes you have to sacrifice to get the things you want.

Answer 7

honey ya need to tell dude that he need to stop worrying about how much money he got and start spending time with you cause if he don't tell him it is over and then you can go find ya another man that got money and spend time with you

Answer 8

I don't understand what you mean when you say he is alwas getting money, but that doesn't really matter...

Find a new guy, one that is willing, no, wants to spend time with you...

Answer 9

Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and maybe he'll make an attempt to spend time with you and if not then its time to move on

Answer 10

if a guy is not spending his money in you then he not in love with you and about time if he care about you he has to be with you even when your busy