why does love hurt? and y do i expect so much from the person i love the most...i juz feel so blue...
2006-12-18 05:19:24 · 8 answers · asked by sweetiepie123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You expect so much more from the person you love the most, because they are supposed to be different...better than the rest. So when they mess up it hurts more, because you put more faith and trust into this special person. That's why it hurts so much more. Sometimes people will take your kindness for a weakness, some people love to take other people forgranted. Love hurts because it helps you to grow and develop as a person. If love didn't hurt we would stay the same and continue to make the same mistakes in love. On the other hand some people continue to make the same mistakes, because they didn't learn "the valuable lesson that was supposed to be learned from that person".
2006-12-18 05:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by Extraordinary Woman~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to bring your standards down a bit sweetie. You want a guy that's going to treat you like how you want to be treated to the tee, no exceptions. And I tell you what you will never have a guy because no guy will give you everything you want and If they do that will start to bother you because he will have no backbone to stand up for you or himself. In order to have anything you have to build from the ground. Whatever he has to offer work with that don't try to change him try to grow with him.
2006-12-18 05:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the exact same problem..dont set your expectations so high and you'll be fine..and dont fall "in love" with them either...wait to tell them that until you've been togethr for a long time
2006-12-18 05:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by tucsongirl85730 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are people involved and you can't make them feel what you feel nor can you make them be what you want them to be (as in fantasy)....just roll with it and it won't be as painful
2006-12-18 05:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pick the wrong people. It's not them, it's your own poor choices.
2006-12-18 05:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is pain....and so is every part of life.
2006-12-18 05:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im heartroken too *hug*
2006-12-18 05:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*(LOVE IS APART OF PAIN AND PAIN IS APART OF LOVE,THEY GO TOGETHER...)*
2006-12-18 05:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by jacktownfinest2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋